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- We begin today our celebration
of the sacrament of baptism.
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We pray for these children, set
them free from original sin
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make them
a temple of your glory
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and send the Holy Spirit
to dwell with them.
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We ask this through
Christ our Lord. Amen.
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- Look at Jenny with that baby.
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- Reject sin.
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- Don't start, Rose.
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- Start what?
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- You know.
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- Well, look at her.
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And that clock has started
ticking. What's she waiting for?
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- A husband.
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- I know that, Eddie.
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I just don't understand why
she hasn't found anybody yet.
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- Profess your faith
in Jesus Christ.
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This is the faith of the church.
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This is the faith in which these
children are about to baptized.
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Do you reject Satan?
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- I do.
- I do.
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- And all his empty promises?
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- I do.
- I do.
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- And all his works?
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- I do.
- I do.
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- You have to answer.
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- What if I don't
believe in Satan?
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Or that all the works
attributed to him are evil?
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- Oh just answer, will you?
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- I do.
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- What was that all about?
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- I don't know.
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- She feels guilty
about something.
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- Guilty? About what?
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- I don't know.
But she feels guilty.
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- And the bread's
on top of the microwave
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and it goes in the blue basket.
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- I know where
the bread goes, Mom.
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I used to live here remember?
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And I already
put it in the red basket.
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- But I always serve it
in the blue basket.
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- They're exactly the same.
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- But... they aren't.
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They're two different colors.
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- Okay, I'll put
the bread in the blue basket.
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- Where's Jenny?
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- Who knows? Mom and I
are doing all this ourselves.
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- I offered to help.
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- But we don't
want your help, it's your day.
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And it's almost done anyway.
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- Hey where you been?
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I got somebody
I want you to meet.
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- I don't have time, I have to
help Mom and Anne with the food.
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- No you don't,
you can help us clean up.
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- All you have to do
is say hello.
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- Hey Tommy, I want you
to meet my sister Jenny.
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- Hi.
- It's nice to meet you.
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Your brother has
told me so much about you.
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- Tommy just transferred here
from our New York office.
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- Oh, New York,
that's a big change.
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But I'm sure
you'll love Cleveland.
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It's got a very
rich cultural heritage.
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- Look I've
got to leave but, um...
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would it be alright
if I called you sometime?
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- Yeah. Sure. Sure.
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- Yeah, don't bother calling.
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- Why not?
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- She won't call back.
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- Strike 43.
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- Oh, shut up, Anne.
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- I don't know
why we keep trying.
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That guy is cute.
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If you keep on being so picky
you're going to end up alone.
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- You know...
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did it ever occur to you
that I might actually
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be in a relationship
with somebody?
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- No, are you?
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- It doesn't matter
if I am or I'm not.
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Why does everybody
always assume I'm not?
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- Because you never bring anybody
home and you never mention it.
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The only people we've
ever met are your roommate
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and that pack of friends
you do everything with.
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If there is somebody,
what's wrong with him?
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He's married isn't he?
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- She said it?
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- No, but she didn't deny it.
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And I could tell from her face.
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- Ah, I just don't believe
she'd do something like that.
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I hope he doesn't have kids.
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Do you know how long
it's been going on?
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- What are you
doing out there, Frankie?
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- Just making some phone calls.
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- She's not going
to tell me anything.
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I have everything she wants.
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2 kids and a husband.
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- I know.
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- I am not involved
with a married man.
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- Good.
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Not that you're going
to do what I say anymore.
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At your age what you do
is... is your business.
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Like me. Sitting here.
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Having a quiet smoke
that nobody needs to know about.
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- Have I ever told on you?
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- No.
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- That Anne has
such a big mouth.
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If she has to gossip
about something
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she should at least
get her story straight.
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- You should leave Anne alone.
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You don't know
what it's like being married
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to a guy like Frankie.
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- I don't know what it's
like to be married at all.
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- You sound like
that's what you want.
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- Doesn't everybody?
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- I guess.
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It's probably why
they don't always do it
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for the right reasons.
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- What's the right reasons?
Somebody's got your back?
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- What are you a Marine?
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No, it's because you...
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you meet the right person.
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And when you meet
the right person you...
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you go the distance.
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And let me tell you
about the distance.
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Everybody changes.
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But if you're with the
right person and they change...
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you meet the right
person all over again.
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- Well, Anne did
get something right.
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I am seeing somebody.
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- Yeah? Who?
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- Just somebody but...
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it is the right person.
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- So when's the wedding?
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- I don't know.
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And I'm cold. Going in, okay?
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- Okay.
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- Jenny?
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- Yeah?
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- Come here,
I want to talk to you.
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- Anne got it all wrong.
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I told her she didn't
know anything about
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my private life, not that
I was dating a married man.
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- Oh, well,
I'm glad to hear that.
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- You believe me
just like that?
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- Of course I believe you.
You never lie.
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- You know...
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it's time for you to start
thinking about what you want.
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- What?
- The china or the crystal.
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I'm giving the silver
to Michael and Lorraine
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so you and Anne have to decide
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who wants the china
and who wants the crystal.
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- You mean when you're dead?
- Yes.
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- I don't want to
have this conversation, Mom.
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- Well, maybe not
but this isn't something
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you can just leave
'till the last minute.
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What are you doing?
I'll drop the glasses.
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- I love you, Mom.
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- I love you too.
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But if you don't let go
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there won't be
any glasses to give away.
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The truth is I'm hoping
you take the crystal.
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- Why?
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- Anne's like your father,
they're careless.
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It'll all be broken in a month.
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But you take care
of your things.
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You're like me.
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What makes you think the guy
isn't serious about her?
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- I don't know. She... she
didn't want to talk about it.
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I'm a fireman,
you know, I know men.
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I can hear these
guys on the phone
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stringing these girls along.
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I'm telling you,
even if she's ready
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this guy hasn't
stepped up to the plate
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and she doesn't
think he's going to.
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- I wonder
why she didn't tell me.
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- Oh, she didn't really
tell me, it just kind of...
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slipped out,
and then she was sorry it did.
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- She's always
been so secretive.
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- Not when she was little.
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She was really open
when she was little.
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- Yeah. She was.
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I wonder what happened.
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- Who knows?
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- Uh-oh. Potato chips?
Bad time at the old homestead?
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- It was okay.
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- You didn't have
the traditional
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fight with your sister?
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- No, but we came close.
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She told everyone
I was dating a married man.
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- Oh, and your brother didn't
try to fix you up again?
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- He did.
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With a very cute guy this time.
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I need to talk to you.
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- Well, I hope you
want to talk about
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getting another roommate in here
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because I don't think
I can afford this place
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much longer if we don't.
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- No, that's not it.
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I've decided...
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I want to get married.
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- Wow.
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- And have a family.
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- I never thought
I would hear you say that.
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What happened?
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- I was talking with my dad
tonight and the things he said
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it... it made me realize
how much I'm missing.
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- Did you tell him
who you want to marry?
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- No.
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- Well, don't you think
you should tell them
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you're marrying me
before the ceremony?
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- Marian's daughter
is back in rehab.
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Son-in-law disappeared and
they have the grandchildren.
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- Poor Marian.
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- It's her own fault,
she never put the time in.
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- We've been lucky
with our kids, Ellen.
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- It wasn't luck.
It was hard work.
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Who else is gonna
teach them right from wrong?
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- This would look
good on Anne. I'll get two.
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- How are she
and Frankie doing?
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- Oh, the same,
and she has to put up
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with that family of his too.
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- That girl's
got her crosses to bear.
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- Has Karen found a job?
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- Oh, not yet.
It's hard with two kids.
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I said I'd take care of them,
but she is a good mother.
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She wants to be with them.
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- What about Bobby?
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- Well, he can't take
a job while he's trying
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to raise money
to open his own repair shop.
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It takes all his energy.
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But at least they
are a happy couple
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and that's the most
important thing. How's Jenny?
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- Jenny's fine.
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And I think
she's finally found someone.
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- No! Is it serious?
- I think it is.
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She said she wants to
talk to us about something.
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- Then it's serious.
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- The guy's a bum,
that's all I know.
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- How do you know that?
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- Because we haven't met him.
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What kind of guy doesn't want to
meet his girlfriend's family?
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- A bum. What's he do?
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- I don't know.
She doesn't talk about him.
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I don't even know his name.
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Anyway she does say she's got
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something important to tell us.
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- Well it sounds like this
is it. He popped the question.
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- Maybe.
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- It could be okay, Eddie.
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Jenny's a good girl.
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- You know, you gotta
lose some weight.
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- Why? I don't
climb ladders anymore.
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- They'll bust you.
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- Yeah, well.
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- You coming over
for a drink later?
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- Ellen and I wouldn't
miss your anniversary party.
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Little taste.
256
00:13:42,888 --> 00:13:45,557
- More onions.
Okay. I'll see ya later.
257
00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:46,724
- Alright.
258
00:13:49,563 --> 00:13:52,897
- No, I'm not okay.
I'm still... carsick.
259
00:13:52,899 --> 00:13:55,133
Once it starts
it just doesn't stop.
260
00:13:55,135 --> 00:13:58,203
- You're not carsick, you're
just afraid to go in there.
261
00:13:59,338 --> 00:14:01,172
- So what if I am?
262
00:14:01,174 --> 00:14:02,740
- So you won't
be able to do this
263
00:14:02,742 --> 00:14:05,310
if you're going
in ashamed of who you are.
264
00:14:05,312 --> 00:14:07,612
- I'm not, I'm not
ashamed of who I am.
265
00:14:07,614 --> 00:14:10,815
- You always say that,
but I'm still kind of confused
266
00:14:10,817 --> 00:14:13,585
as to why you've told
everybody except your family.
267
00:14:13,587 --> 00:14:17,355
- Because they live in a small
world and they like it in there
268
00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:20,792
and I've just never
found the right time to...
269
00:14:20,794 --> 00:14:22,794
drop the bomb.
270
00:14:25,731 --> 00:14:30,535
- You've been lying
for a long time.
271
00:14:30,537 --> 00:14:33,638
That's what you're
really afraid of.
272
00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,674
When you tell them it's gonna
change the way they see you.
273
00:14:42,681 --> 00:14:44,148
You need to do this on your own.
274
00:14:44,150 --> 00:14:46,751
- What? -It's between
you and your parents.
275
00:14:46,753 --> 00:14:48,987
I'll just be in the way.
276
00:14:48,989 --> 00:14:51,155
Just call me when it's done.
277
00:15:16,715 --> 00:15:17,882
- Jenny?
278
00:15:17,884 --> 00:15:19,918
- Yeah. It's me.
- Yeah I know.
279
00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:21,653
Ah, where's Kitty?
280
00:15:21,655 --> 00:15:26,024
- Oh, she... she had
to go cause there was, um...
281
00:15:26,026 --> 00:15:28,192
an emergency
at the school. Yeah, I think.
282
00:15:28,194 --> 00:15:30,595
- What kind of emergency?
- A flood.
283
00:15:30,597 --> 00:15:33,932
- A flood? What's she
gonna do about a flood?
284
00:15:33,934 --> 00:15:35,466
- I don't know.
285
00:15:35,468 --> 00:15:36,567
Happy anniversary.
286
00:15:36,569 --> 00:15:38,436
- Oh, thank you.
287
00:15:38,438 --> 00:15:39,871
- Alright, come on.
- Okay.
288
00:15:39,873 --> 00:15:41,306
- Jenny's here everybody.
289
00:15:41,308 --> 00:15:43,708
- Jenny's here.
- Oh! Finally Jenny's here.
290
00:15:43,710 --> 00:15:45,810
- Ta-da!
- Jenny.
291
00:15:45,812 --> 00:15:47,178
- Where's Kitty?
292
00:15:47,180 --> 00:15:49,647
- Ah, she had to take care
of a flood at the school.
293
00:15:49,649 --> 00:15:51,282
- What does Kitty
know about floods?
294
00:15:51,284 --> 00:15:52,517
- Can I talk to you upstairs?
295
00:15:52,519 --> 00:15:54,519
There's something
I need to tell you.
296
00:16:07,566 --> 00:16:09,667
- Please say something, Jenny.
297
00:16:13,372 --> 00:16:15,440
We thought you were going to
tell us you're getting married.
298
00:16:15,442 --> 00:16:17,275
But it doesn't
look like that now.
299
00:16:17,277 --> 00:16:19,711
What happened, honey,
did you break up?
300
00:16:19,713 --> 00:16:22,113
- No.
301
00:16:22,115 --> 00:16:23,748
- Then what is it?
302
00:16:26,018 --> 00:16:27,285
What do you want to tell me?
303
00:16:27,287 --> 00:16:29,554
- This isn't gonna
be easy for you.
304
00:16:29,556 --> 00:16:32,223
- Are you sick?
- No.
305
00:16:32,225 --> 00:16:33,324
- Then what is it, honey?
306
00:16:33,326 --> 00:16:35,393
What could possibly
be so hard for me?
307
00:16:35,395 --> 00:16:37,395
- I'm gay.
308
00:16:38,664 --> 00:16:39,731
- What?
309
00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,301
- I'm gay, Mom.
310
00:16:45,070 --> 00:16:46,337
- You're...
311
00:16:49,775 --> 00:16:51,709
What?
312
00:16:51,711 --> 00:16:54,679
- I'm a lesbian.
313
00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:56,314
I'm gay.
314
00:16:56,316 --> 00:16:57,482
- But...
315
00:16:59,184 --> 00:17:01,586
But what about the guy?
316
00:17:01,588 --> 00:17:04,989
- There is no guy.
There's never been a guy.
317
00:17:04,991 --> 00:17:08,593
All these years... you
made them up and I...
318
00:17:10,029 --> 00:17:11,929
I just went along with it.
319
00:17:14,967 --> 00:17:16,667
- But...
320
00:17:16,669 --> 00:17:18,102
But I don't... I don't...
I don't understand.
321
00:17:18,104 --> 00:17:19,137
Um.
322
00:17:23,042 --> 00:17:25,610
How long have you known this?
323
00:17:25,612 --> 00:17:28,513
- Always.
- And I missed it?
324
00:17:28,515 --> 00:17:30,782
How did... how could I
miss something like this?
325
00:17:30,784 --> 00:17:35,053
- You wanted to. You didn't
want to know and I knew that.
326
00:17:35,055 --> 00:17:36,220
Didn't you ever wonder
327
00:17:36,222 --> 00:17:39,223
why you never met
any of these boyfriends?
328
00:17:39,225 --> 00:17:41,526
- Ah, you always broke up
with them before I could.
329
00:17:41,528 --> 00:17:42,794
- No, I didn't.
330
00:17:42,796 --> 00:17:47,532
I just... let you think
what you wanted to think.
331
00:17:47,534 --> 00:17:50,968
- I thought you were...
You were waiting. I...
332
00:17:50,970 --> 00:17:52,837
- For what?
333
00:17:52,839 --> 00:17:54,906
- I thought...
334
00:17:56,442 --> 00:17:59,043
What did we do wrong?
- Nothing.
335
00:17:59,045 --> 00:18:00,511
You didn't do anything wrong.
336
00:18:00,513 --> 00:18:03,414
This is just... how I am.
337
00:18:04,450 --> 00:18:05,850
- But you're...
338
00:18:05,852 --> 00:18:08,319
But you're...
You're like me, you know?
339
00:18:09,721 --> 00:18:11,923
We even like the same things.
340
00:18:11,925 --> 00:18:15,460
I always, I always
thought you were like me.
341
00:18:15,462 --> 00:18:17,895
- That hasn't changed.
342
00:18:17,897 --> 00:18:21,566
I am like you.
I'm still the same person, Mom.
343
00:18:22,034 --> 00:18:23,534
- No.
344
00:18:24,203 --> 00:18:26,104
You're not.
345
00:18:27,806 --> 00:18:30,975
You've been
lying to me for years.
346
00:18:38,750 --> 00:18:41,986
Your father will have to know
and you should tell him.
347
00:18:41,988 --> 00:18:43,855
- I was going to
tell you both at the same time
348
00:18:43,857 --> 00:18:46,157
but everybody was staring at me.
349
00:18:47,826 --> 00:18:50,862
He needs to know before, uh...
350
00:18:50,864 --> 00:18:53,030
Before I tell everybody else.
351
00:18:55,067 --> 00:18:56,534
- You're telling other people?
352
00:18:56,536 --> 00:18:58,936
- I have to tell
Anne and Michael.
353
00:18:58,938 --> 00:19:00,905
I'm going to tell everybody.
354
00:19:02,374 --> 00:19:04,842
Kitty and I want
to get married, Mom.
355
00:19:10,082 --> 00:19:12,617
- You're marrying
your roommate?
356
00:19:12,619 --> 00:19:15,119
- She's not my roommate.
357
00:19:15,121 --> 00:19:18,723
We've been partners
for five years now and...
358
00:19:18,725 --> 00:19:20,791
we want to start a family.
359
00:19:20,793 --> 00:19:22,293
- A family?
360
00:19:22,295 --> 00:19:25,329
- Yeah. It's what you're
always talking about, isn't it?
361
00:19:26,298 --> 00:19:28,432
And we want a big wedding.
362
00:19:28,434 --> 00:19:29,634
With everybody there.
363
00:19:29,636 --> 00:19:31,369
Friends and family.
364
00:19:31,371 --> 00:19:33,471
We want a wedding like
Anne and Michael had.
365
00:19:33,473 --> 00:19:36,774
I want... I want
you and Dad to give me away.
366
00:19:40,612 --> 00:19:43,381
- Do what you're gonna do.
367
00:19:43,383 --> 00:19:47,251
But I'm asking you,
for my sake...
368
00:19:47,253 --> 00:19:49,620
not to tell everybody else.
369
00:19:49,622 --> 00:19:51,055
Not yet.
370
00:19:52,024 --> 00:19:53,291
- Why?
371
00:19:55,227 --> 00:19:58,229
- 'Cause if you do nothing
will ever be the same again.
372
00:19:58,231 --> 00:20:01,265
- Nothing is
the same anymore, Mom.
373
00:20:01,267 --> 00:20:04,869
- Maybe not for you but...
but your life isn't here anymore
374
00:20:04,871 --> 00:20:06,938
and if you don't like
what happens you can go away.
375
00:20:06,940 --> 00:20:08,973
I can't.
376
00:20:08,975 --> 00:20:12,243
This place, these people,
they're my life
377
00:20:12,245 --> 00:20:15,880
and I have to stay here.
I have to live with them.
378
00:20:15,882 --> 00:20:20,518
Oh, I love you, Jenny.
Nothing could ever change that.
379
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:24,589
But I have a life too and you
can't just change my life on me.
380
00:20:31,697 --> 00:20:34,832
- It's not like
I'm living in the past, I'm not.
381
00:20:34,834 --> 00:20:38,069
I know times have changed,
anything goes these days.
382
00:20:38,071 --> 00:20:40,638
I read the papers, I watch TV.
383
00:20:42,474 --> 00:20:43,941
But...
384
00:20:43,943 --> 00:20:47,812
But I don't know personally,
anybody in this neighborhood
385
00:20:47,814 --> 00:20:49,647
whose children have...
386
00:20:51,049 --> 00:20:53,050
you know...
387
00:20:55,087 --> 00:20:58,723
- Maybe they all left.
- What?
388
00:20:58,725 --> 00:21:01,525
- The neighborhood, maybe
they left the neighborhood.
389
00:21:01,527 --> 00:21:02,927
- I'm sure they did.
390
00:21:02,929 --> 00:21:04,428
- And the lying,
all that lying.
391
00:21:04,430 --> 00:21:07,164
Even though I know
why you did it
392
00:21:07,166 --> 00:21:08,766
it's still
a hard pill to swallow.
393
00:21:08,768 --> 00:21:11,769
And now a wedding.
394
00:21:11,771 --> 00:21:14,071
Starting a family.
395
00:21:14,073 --> 00:21:18,276
I mean... we're... we're
ordinary people
396
00:21:18,278 --> 00:21:20,278
not, you know... rebels.
397
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,280
- Neither am I.
398
00:21:22,282 --> 00:21:25,149
I just want
what you gave Anne and Michael.
399
00:21:27,953 --> 00:21:30,421
I only did this because of you.
400
00:21:31,023 --> 00:21:32,223
- What?
401
00:21:32,225 --> 00:21:34,458
- You told me
if you meet the right person
402
00:21:34,460 --> 00:21:36,761
you should go
the distance, and I did.
403
00:21:39,464 --> 00:21:41,599
I met the right person.
404
00:21:41,601 --> 00:21:42,733
Kitty.
405
00:21:44,770 --> 00:21:47,638
That's why I asked her to marry
me and now you're asking me
406
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,107
to hide it from my own family.
407
00:21:52,077 --> 00:21:54,979
- If you tell them
you'll hurt your mother.
408
00:21:54,981 --> 00:21:57,448
- If I don't it will hurt me.
409
00:21:59,184 --> 00:22:01,185
What would you do?
410
00:22:03,789 --> 00:22:05,956
- I don't know.
411
00:22:26,511 --> 00:22:30,247
- Will someone please
tell me what's going on here?
412
00:22:30,249 --> 00:22:32,783
- You really wanna know?
- Why else would I ask?
413
00:22:38,490 --> 00:22:40,558
- The married man
and I broke up.
414
00:22:42,394 --> 00:22:44,395
- I knew I was right about that.
415
00:22:46,998 --> 00:22:49,567
How come?
416
00:22:49,569 --> 00:22:53,437
- He decided to
stay with his wife.
417
00:22:53,439 --> 00:22:57,241
Well, I'm sorry, Jens. But he
sounds like a bastard to me.
418
00:22:57,243 --> 00:22:59,977
I think you dodged a bullet.
419
00:22:59,979 --> 00:23:01,512
You don't want to
spend the rest of your life
420
00:23:01,514 --> 00:23:03,914
living with a liar do you?
421
00:23:03,916 --> 00:23:07,618
- No. But sometimes
you have to.
422
00:23:08,587 --> 00:23:09,720
I'll fill the water glasses.
423
00:23:09,722 --> 00:23:12,456
- I knew I was
right about the married man.
424
00:23:33,145 --> 00:23:35,246
- Well?
425
00:23:35,248 --> 00:23:37,748
- You did it.
- I did it.
426
00:23:37,750 --> 00:23:39,550
- Are you... okay?
427
00:23:39,552 --> 00:23:41,018
- Yeah.
428
00:23:41,020 --> 00:23:42,887
Even though I lied to my sister.
429
00:23:42,889 --> 00:23:44,989
I am.
430
00:23:44,991 --> 00:23:47,024
Thanks.
431
00:23:47,026 --> 00:23:50,194
Telling my parents feels like...
432
00:23:50,196 --> 00:23:52,229
being let out of prison.
433
00:23:55,534 --> 00:23:59,737
- Look, if you've
changed your mind
434
00:23:59,739 --> 00:24:02,540
about getting married...
435
00:24:02,542 --> 00:24:05,443
I'm okay with that.
436
00:24:05,445 --> 00:24:08,145
- Why would I change
my mind about getting married?
437
00:24:09,614 --> 00:24:13,651
- Your family. I know how
important they are to you.
438
00:24:13,653 --> 00:24:17,688
- No. My family
is not marrying you, I am.
439
00:24:17,690 --> 00:24:19,457
And I have never
been more certain
440
00:24:19,459 --> 00:24:22,460
about anything in my entire life
than I am about marrying you.
441
00:24:37,075 --> 00:24:39,043
- I wonder who proposed.
442
00:24:40,345 --> 00:24:43,113
- She did.
443
00:24:43,115 --> 00:24:44,381
- She did.
444
00:24:46,184 --> 00:24:49,954
She said, "Kitty,
will you marry me?"
445
00:24:51,990 --> 00:24:53,991
"Kitty let's start a family."
446
00:24:56,728 --> 00:24:59,597
All these years
living a secret life.
447
00:25:04,803 --> 00:25:07,071
I thought I knew her.
448
00:25:07,073 --> 00:25:09,373
Then I find out
I don't know her at all.
449
00:25:12,143 --> 00:25:13,344
- She's...
450
00:25:14,346 --> 00:25:15,613
She's the same person.
451
00:25:15,615 --> 00:25:18,315
She just left
a few things out, that's all.
452
00:25:18,317 --> 00:25:20,651
- Oh, Eddie, what she
left out is who she is.
453
00:25:20,653 --> 00:25:22,853
Being private
isn't the same as lying.
454
00:25:22,855 --> 00:25:25,890
- Well, you just
asked her to keep on lying
455
00:25:25,892 --> 00:25:28,592
so let's stop
talking about the lying part.
456
00:25:28,594 --> 00:25:30,094
- I never asked her to lie.
457
00:25:30,096 --> 00:25:32,329
All I did was ask her
not to tell everybody.
458
00:25:32,331 --> 00:25:35,266
She didn't have to lie to Anne.
459
00:25:35,268 --> 00:25:37,501
And... and now that she's ready
to tell the whole world
460
00:25:37,503 --> 00:25:41,105
the truth, we're just supposed
to go along with it.
461
00:25:41,107 --> 00:25:43,140
You remember our daughter Jenny,
don't you?
462
00:25:43,142 --> 00:25:45,042
Well, guess what, she's a
completely different person.
463
00:25:45,044 --> 00:25:47,611
- Well, let's just drop it okay
464
00:25:47,613 --> 00:25:50,893
because you know, she's doing what you
wanted her to do and that's that.
465
00:25:55,787 --> 00:25:58,856
- We have a life too, don't we?
466
00:25:58,858 --> 00:26:00,457
- Yes.
467
00:26:00,459 --> 00:26:03,527
- This isn't just about her.
468
00:26:03,529 --> 00:26:04,828
- No.
469
00:26:08,266 --> 00:26:12,136
- What do you think
I should have done?
470
00:26:12,138 --> 00:26:14,204
- All you can do...
471
00:26:14,206 --> 00:26:16,206
is what you do.
472
00:26:17,409 --> 00:26:19,343
- What?
473
00:26:19,345 --> 00:26:22,613
- All you can do
is what you do.
474
00:26:22,615 --> 00:26:24,515
- What does that mean?
475
00:26:24,517 --> 00:26:26,917
- It means what it means.
476
00:26:38,363 --> 00:26:40,230
- Hello?
477
00:26:40,232 --> 00:26:41,699
- Hi, Mom. It's me.
478
00:26:41,701 --> 00:26:44,134
- Jenny. How are you?
479
00:26:44,136 --> 00:26:47,037
- I'm good, how are you?
- I'm fine.
480
00:26:51,743 --> 00:26:53,043
How are things?
481
00:26:53,045 --> 00:26:56,046
- Great. Things are great.
482
00:26:56,048 --> 00:26:58,048
How are things with you?
483
00:26:58,750 --> 00:27:01,151
- Things are great.
484
00:27:03,855 --> 00:27:08,592
- Well. I... I better go.
485
00:27:08,594 --> 00:27:11,795
- Okay, dear. Have a nice day.
486
00:27:13,365 --> 00:27:15,766
- You have a nice day too.
487
00:27:15,768 --> 00:27:18,335
- I love you.
488
00:27:18,337 --> 00:27:20,337
- Love you too.
489
00:27:43,395 --> 00:27:45,596
- Why are we doing this?
I'm freezing.
490
00:27:45,598 --> 00:27:47,731
- It was your idea
to get more exercise.
491
00:27:47,733 --> 00:27:50,768
- No it wasn't. It was Jenny's.
492
00:27:50,770 --> 00:27:52,169
Okay I'm done.
493
00:27:53,972 --> 00:27:55,606
How is Jenny by the way?
494
00:27:55,608 --> 00:27:57,775
- Jenny. Jenny's fine.
495
00:27:59,711 --> 00:28:02,880
- She looked strange
at your anniversary party.
496
00:28:02,882 --> 00:28:04,348
- Did she?
497
00:28:04,350 --> 00:28:06,116
- Unhappy.
498
00:28:06,118 --> 00:28:08,118
- I didn't see it.
499
00:28:10,789 --> 00:28:14,391
- Anne told Karen
about the married man.
500
00:28:14,393 --> 00:28:15,859
- Anne has a big mouth.
501
00:28:15,861 --> 00:28:17,695
- They weren't gossiping.
502
00:28:17,697 --> 00:28:20,064
Our girls are like sisters.
503
00:28:21,966 --> 00:28:23,400
Did you ever meet him?
504
00:28:23,402 --> 00:28:25,235
- No.
505
00:28:25,237 --> 00:28:27,938
- Well, at least it's over.
506
00:28:27,940 --> 00:28:30,040
Anyway, that's what Karen said.
507
00:28:32,177 --> 00:28:35,012
- It is, isn't it?
- What?
508
00:28:35,014 --> 00:28:38,015
- Over.
- Yes.
509
00:28:40,819 --> 00:28:43,587
- Why are you acting so weird?
510
00:28:43,589 --> 00:28:45,456
- How am I acting weird?
511
00:28:45,458 --> 00:28:47,291
- All secretive.
512
00:28:47,293 --> 00:28:51,028
Like, I'm sticking my nose
in your business.
513
00:28:51,030 --> 00:28:53,263
We've been talking
to each other about everything
514
00:28:53,265 --> 00:28:57,668
for 45 years and
Jenny is like one of my own.
515
00:28:57,670 --> 00:29:00,170
- I know that, Ellen. I know.
516
00:29:00,172 --> 00:29:04,208
- Then why are you
acting like I'm a busybody?
517
00:29:04,210 --> 00:29:06,543
- I'm upset.
518
00:29:08,747 --> 00:29:10,748
About the married man.
519
00:29:13,017 --> 00:29:15,085
- It's probably just a phase.
520
00:29:17,055 --> 00:29:20,724
Is it somebody she works with?
521
00:29:20,726 --> 00:29:21,859
Not her boss?
522
00:29:21,861 --> 00:29:24,394
- No, not her boss.
It's another...
523
00:29:25,997 --> 00:29:27,698
Another social worker.
524
00:29:27,700 --> 00:29:31,502
- Any kids?
- No, no kids, let's go.
525
00:29:31,504 --> 00:29:33,270
- Well, that's a blessing.
526
00:29:34,839 --> 00:29:37,474
Oh, don't worry too much, Rose.
527
00:29:37,476 --> 00:29:40,310
She's gonna be fine,
she's got you.
528
00:29:50,488 --> 00:29:52,289
- Dad. What are you doing here?
529
00:29:52,291 --> 00:29:54,858
- Well, I was
in the neighborhood.
530
00:29:54,860 --> 00:29:57,261
- You never come over here.
531
00:29:57,263 --> 00:30:01,231
- Well, I, uh...
I had to buy some equipment.
532
00:30:01,233 --> 00:30:03,500
- What kind of equipment
do they sell around here?
533
00:30:03,502 --> 00:30:06,036
- Well, you know,
just equipment stuff.
534
00:30:06,038 --> 00:30:07,471
It's not worth talking about.
535
00:30:07,473 --> 00:30:09,807
You wanna have some lunch
or is this a bad time for you?
536
00:30:09,809 --> 00:30:12,309
- No, I'm starving...
537
00:30:12,311 --> 00:30:15,612
and it is always
a bad time around here.
538
00:30:15,614 --> 00:30:17,514
The last stop for kids
nobody wants
539
00:30:17,516 --> 00:30:20,851
and... I'm supposed
to find homes for them all.
540
00:30:20,853 --> 00:30:23,620
- Well, you always do.
541
00:30:25,490 --> 00:30:28,025
- You have too high
an opinion of me, Dad.
542
00:30:33,464 --> 00:30:35,799
- Michael's coming around to help
re-build the fence next week.
543
00:30:35,801 --> 00:30:37,334
- Yeah, he mentioned that.
- Yeah.
544
00:30:37,336 --> 00:30:39,570
What about Anne and Frankie,
you seen them?
545
00:30:39,572 --> 00:30:42,272
- Not in a couple of weeks.
546
00:30:42,274 --> 00:30:44,942
- They're, um, they're going
away next weekend
547
00:30:44,944 --> 00:30:46,844
they asked us
to look after the kids.
548
00:30:46,846 --> 00:30:49,646
But we've got
the bowling tournament so, uh...
549
00:30:49,648 --> 00:30:52,850
so I guess they'll ask,
uh, Michael and Lorraine.
550
00:30:52,852 --> 00:30:54,918
- They asked us.
551
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,956
- Well, those kids
are crazy about you.
552
00:30:58,958 --> 00:31:00,958
- No, it's Kitty
that they love.
553
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,126
She's really fantastic
with kids.
554
00:31:06,164 --> 00:31:08,632
- So, uh, it's almost
Turkey Day.
555
00:31:08,634 --> 00:31:10,601
Your favorite holiday.
556
00:31:10,603 --> 00:31:13,570
- Yeah, I hope I can cook
one as good as Mom does.
557
00:31:14,939 --> 00:31:17,875
- Well, you're... you're
gonna cook your own?
558
00:31:17,877 --> 00:31:19,209
- Yeah.
559
00:31:20,545 --> 00:31:22,905
Yeah, Kitty and I are gonna have
a couple friends over.
560
00:31:26,184 --> 00:31:29,786
- So... what do you want, Jenny?
561
00:31:32,290 --> 00:31:34,291
- What do I want?
562
00:31:36,427 --> 00:31:39,229
Don't you know?
563
00:31:39,231 --> 00:31:41,431
- Ribs.
564
00:31:41,433 --> 00:31:42,532
- What?
- Yeah.
565
00:31:42,534 --> 00:31:43,700
I know how much you love ribs.
566
00:31:43,702 --> 00:31:45,836
I was thinking maybe,
you know, Chinese
567
00:31:45,838 --> 00:31:49,306
but if you want ribs,
I'm happy with that.
568
00:31:50,608 --> 00:31:53,443
- Yeah, yeah, ribs.
Let's do ribs then.
569
00:31:53,445 --> 00:31:55,279
- Okay.
- Okay.
570
00:31:55,847 --> 00:31:57,047
- Come on.
571
00:31:58,616 --> 00:32:00,736
- She's always been here
for Thanksgiving.
572
00:32:02,754 --> 00:32:04,755
- Not this year.
573
00:32:08,493 --> 00:32:10,560
- I don't get what you mean
when you say...
574
00:32:10,562 --> 00:32:12,562
she looks happy.
575
00:32:13,998 --> 00:32:15,933
- I mean, she looks happy.
576
00:32:15,935 --> 00:32:19,736
What else does happy mean,
it means happy.
577
00:32:19,738 --> 00:32:22,739
- How can she be happy
with everything that's going on?
578
00:32:28,780 --> 00:32:31,548
- This is bad, Rose.
579
00:32:31,550 --> 00:32:32,783
- What's bad?
580
00:32:32,785 --> 00:32:34,985
- Wanting her to be unhappy.
581
00:32:37,055 --> 00:32:38,889
- I don't want
her to be unhappy.
582
00:32:38,891 --> 00:32:41,325
Why would I want that?
583
00:32:41,327 --> 00:32:43,427
- Because we are.
584
00:32:57,175 --> 00:32:58,675
- I couldn't believe
that they're screaming.
585
00:32:58,677 --> 00:33:01,044
"My baby, my baby,"
I climb all the way up
586
00:33:01,046 --> 00:33:03,814
to the top of the stairs,
and all I find is a dead cat.
587
00:33:03,816 --> 00:33:05,515
- Jesus.
- Who was that?
588
00:33:05,517 --> 00:33:08,285
- The two bull dykes
on the top floor.
589
00:33:08,287 --> 00:33:10,821
- Don't call them that.
- What?
590
00:33:10,823 --> 00:33:12,889
- Bull dykes,
don't call them bull dykes.
591
00:33:12,891 --> 00:33:14,458
- Why not?
- Because they're people.
592
00:33:14,460 --> 00:33:16,460
That's why.
People like you and me.
593
00:33:16,462 --> 00:33:17,661
- Oh, I'm sorry,
I should have said
594
00:33:17,663 --> 00:33:20,263
the two bull people
on the top floor.
595
00:33:23,668 --> 00:33:26,603
- What's eating him?
- Bobby, just let it go.
596
00:33:26,605 --> 00:33:30,173
Eddie. Eddie, listen.
597
00:33:31,542 --> 00:33:34,511
Ellen told me what Jenny wanted
to talk to you guys about.
598
00:33:34,513 --> 00:33:37,381
I'm sorry.
- How does Ellen know?
599
00:33:38,783 --> 00:33:41,018
- Stuff gets around,
but, you know, I'll be there
600
00:33:41,020 --> 00:33:43,720
if you ever want to punch
this asshole's lights out.
601
00:33:43,722 --> 00:33:45,555
- Punch Kitty?
602
00:33:45,557 --> 00:33:47,791
- The married guy's name
is Kitty?
603
00:33:49,193 --> 00:33:52,662
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ted... Ted Kitty.
604
00:34:01,873 --> 00:34:04,608
- Mrs. Farrell?
- Oh, my God!
605
00:34:04,610 --> 00:34:07,210
Barbara Ellen, you scared me!
- I'm so sorry.
606
00:34:07,212 --> 00:34:09,513
Do you remember me?
- Of course, I remember you.
607
00:34:09,515 --> 00:34:11,181
You went to school with Jenny.
608
00:34:11,183 --> 00:34:14,451
And you didn't scare me, I was
just staring at this dress.
609
00:34:14,453 --> 00:34:17,754
- It's beautiful, isn't it?
It's not right on me.
610
00:34:17,756 --> 00:34:19,456
- You're getting married?
- Yeah.
611
00:34:19,458 --> 00:34:21,925
I'm meeting my mother inside.
How's Jenny?
612
00:34:21,927 --> 00:34:24,428
- Jenny is just great.
613
00:34:24,430 --> 00:34:26,196
- I haven't seen her
since high school.
614
00:34:26,198 --> 00:34:29,299
Is she married?
- No. No, she isn't.
615
00:34:29,301 --> 00:34:33,470
No, she's just, ugh,
completely caught up...
616
00:34:33,472 --> 00:34:37,074
in her career, she's, um,
she's a social worker.
617
00:34:37,076 --> 00:34:39,376
She handles
very disturbed children.
618
00:34:39,378 --> 00:34:42,412
Complicated cases, the ones
no one else can touch.
619
00:34:42,414 --> 00:34:44,147
She's wonderful at it.
620
00:34:44,149 --> 00:34:46,116
- I guess some women
are just like that.
621
00:34:46,118 --> 00:34:47,451
- Like what?
622
00:34:47,453 --> 00:34:49,486
- More caught up in their work
than their emotions.
623
00:34:49,488 --> 00:34:51,321
Born career gals.
624
00:34:51,323 --> 00:34:53,957
- I... I don't, I don't know
what makes you think that...
625
00:34:53,959 --> 00:34:56,526
career gals
don't have emotions.
626
00:34:56,528 --> 00:34:58,562
Jenny is picky,
uh, even about food.
627
00:34:58,564 --> 00:35:01,631
But she has strong emotions
and not throwing herself
628
00:35:01,633 --> 00:35:03,567
at the first person that comes
along is a sign of character.
629
00:35:03,569 --> 00:35:05,635
Not a lack of emotion.
- I'm sure.
630
00:35:05,637 --> 00:35:09,372
- The... the truth is, Jenny
is... is... is very involved
631
00:35:09,374 --> 00:35:11,341
with a highly respected man
in her field
632
00:35:11,343 --> 00:35:13,544
and, uh, I wouldn't be surprised
if it led to a wedding.
633
00:35:13,545 --> 00:35:15,112
So you don't need
to worry about Jenny.
634
00:35:15,114 --> 00:35:17,647
- I wasn't.
- No, no, of course not.
635
00:35:17,649 --> 00:35:19,749
Why would you be?
636
00:35:19,751 --> 00:35:21,451
- You know, my mother's waiting
for me inside.
637
00:35:21,453 --> 00:35:22,853
Mrs. Farrell, so I better go.
638
00:35:22,855 --> 00:35:25,722
- It was very nice to see you,
Barbara Ellen. All the best.
639
00:35:25,724 --> 00:35:27,724
- Thank you, Mrs. Farrell.
640
00:35:38,836 --> 00:35:41,538
- You're late.
- I know.
641
00:35:42,773 --> 00:35:45,408
- You take 90?
- Yeah.
642
00:35:45,410 --> 00:35:47,844
- What time?
- 4:30.
643
00:35:49,046 --> 00:35:51,915
- You never take 90 after 4:00,
you know that.
644
00:35:51,917 --> 00:35:53,950
Always take Carnegie.
645
00:35:53,952 --> 00:35:56,219
- It's longer.
- Less traffic.
646
00:35:56,221 --> 00:35:58,889
I always take
Carnegie after 4:00.
647
00:36:04,829 --> 00:36:06,930
- It's my fault, isn't it?
648
00:36:06,932 --> 00:36:09,099
- You're the one who took 90.
649
00:36:10,601 --> 00:36:12,736
- I mean Jenny. It's my fault.
650
00:36:14,205 --> 00:36:16,406
I know they say,
it's how you're born now
651
00:36:16,408 --> 00:36:20,810
but... I don't know, I wonder.
652
00:36:20,812 --> 00:36:23,446
And I was her role model.
I'm what she's rejecting.
653
00:36:23,448 --> 00:36:25,916
- Now, don't hog
all the glory, Rose.
654
00:36:25,918 --> 00:36:28,018
I'm the man she grew up around.
655
00:36:28,020 --> 00:36:30,320
If she's rejecting anybody,
it's me.
656
00:36:35,660 --> 00:36:38,628
- I know you.
- Excuse me?
657
00:36:40,031 --> 00:36:42,699
- I know you,
and I know what you're thinking.
658
00:36:42,701 --> 00:36:44,334
- What's that?
659
00:36:44,336 --> 00:36:46,136
- You're blaming me.
660
00:36:46,138 --> 00:36:48,972
- What for?
- The lying!
661
00:36:48,974 --> 00:36:50,373
- I'm not blaming you
for lying.
662
00:36:50,375 --> 00:36:53,877
I'm... I'm just doing
what you wanna do.
663
00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,580
- Why do you keep saying that?
- Because it's true.
664
00:36:56,582 --> 00:36:58,114
- Then, ugh.
665
00:36:58,116 --> 00:36:59,649
Then let's do
what you want to do, Eddie.
666
00:36:59,651 --> 00:37:01,318
You never say what you wanna do.
What do you want to do, Eddie?
667
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,620
- I want... I want to eat
my dinner in peace and quiet.
668
00:37:03,622 --> 00:37:06,523
That's what I want to do.
- No, it isn't!
669
00:37:06,525 --> 00:37:08,858
You... you... you want me
to be the bad guy
670
00:37:08,860 --> 00:37:11,428
that's what you want.
It's always been that way.
671
00:37:11,430 --> 00:37:13,830
I look like the bad guy
when all I'm doing is exactly
672
00:37:13,832 --> 00:37:16,933
what you want to do, but I end
up getting blamed for it!
673
00:37:33,017 --> 00:37:35,819
- I kind of like that
it's not white.
674
00:37:35,821 --> 00:37:37,887
- Looks like a cantaloupe.
675
00:37:39,357 --> 00:37:42,092
What about that?
676
00:37:42,094 --> 00:37:46,196
- Oh, my gosh, that dress
would be perfect on you.
677
00:37:52,303 --> 00:37:56,339
- Jenny!
- I love that. I love it.
678
00:37:56,341 --> 00:37:59,209
- All these dresses
are so beautiful.
679
00:37:59,211 --> 00:38:01,344
- Well, you gotta pick
the one you love the best
680
00:38:01,346 --> 00:38:03,266
because you
only get married once.
681
00:38:07,952 --> 00:38:10,954
Oh, my gosh, I love this one.
- Hmm.
682
00:38:10,956 --> 00:38:14,057
- This is the dress for me.
I love this.
683
00:38:14,059 --> 00:38:16,760
- I never thought
we'd be doing this.
684
00:38:16,762 --> 00:38:18,595
- Did you?
- No.
685
00:38:38,983 --> 00:38:41,818
- I may have grown up
in a trailer park, Bryce
686
00:38:41,820 --> 00:38:43,486
but I'm warning you...
687
00:38:43,488 --> 00:38:46,156
if I don't get
Worthing divorcer in the
688
00:38:46,158 --> 00:38:47,657
everyone will know
about your past.
689
00:38:47,659 --> 00:38:48,992
- Hello?
690
00:38:49,894 --> 00:38:52,128
- Anne. What're you doing here?
691
00:38:52,130 --> 00:38:53,496
- Are you busy?
692
00:38:53,498 --> 00:38:56,333
- No, just ironing.
693
00:38:56,335 --> 00:38:58,268
Camilla told Bryce...
694
00:38:58,270 --> 00:38:59,569
if she doesn't get
Worthington Manor
695
00:38:59,571 --> 00:39:02,372
in the divorce settlement,
she'll expose his past.
696
00:39:02,374 --> 00:39:04,307
- I saw Jenny this morning.
697
00:39:04,309 --> 00:39:08,078
- Oh, yeah. Where?
- Nordstrom.
698
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:09,813
- Oh, was there a sale?
699
00:39:09,815 --> 00:39:13,616
- No. Something happened.
700
00:39:13,618 --> 00:39:16,519
I don't know
if I should tell you
701
00:39:16,521 --> 00:39:21,024
but... I figured somebody else
will sooner or later
702
00:39:21,026 --> 00:39:23,259
so it's better
if it comes from me.
703
00:39:25,429 --> 00:39:29,132
She was outside
the bridal suite with Kitty.
704
00:39:29,134 --> 00:39:31,634
They're a couple, Mom.
705
00:39:31,636 --> 00:39:34,371
They were kissing
each other in public.
706
00:39:39,410 --> 00:39:42,112
I should have
gone up to them, but I...
707
00:39:42,114 --> 00:39:43,980
was so blown away, I couldn't
and then I didn't know
708
00:39:43,982 --> 00:39:47,484
what to do. If I should, if I
should tell you or not tell you.
709
00:39:47,486 --> 00:39:50,653
And then I thought, well, you should
know before anybody else does.
710
00:39:51,889 --> 00:39:55,458
How could we have
missed it all these years?
711
00:39:55,460 --> 00:40:00,497
No boyfriends, hanging out with
all those girls all the time.
712
00:40:00,499 --> 00:40:03,767
And it looked like they were
picking out wedding dresses, Mom.
713
00:40:05,069 --> 00:40:07,670
Wedding dresses!
714
00:40:07,672 --> 00:40:09,706
- They probably were.
715
00:40:10,708 --> 00:40:13,076
They're getting married.
716
00:40:13,078 --> 00:40:14,477
- What?
717
00:40:17,415 --> 00:40:20,250
- They're getting married.
718
00:40:20,252 --> 00:40:22,752
- You knew about them?
- Yeah.
719
00:40:22,754 --> 00:40:24,487
- Since when?
720
00:40:24,489 --> 00:40:25,855
- Since...
721
00:40:27,091 --> 00:40:28,958
our anniversary party.
722
00:40:30,861 --> 00:40:34,330
- So all that stuff about the
married man was a pack of lies?
723
00:40:34,332 --> 00:40:35,565
- It...
724
00:40:37,802 --> 00:40:39,769
It wasn't the truth.
725
00:40:41,238 --> 00:40:43,540
- You two
and your conspiracies.
726
00:40:43,542 --> 00:40:44,941
- Conspiracies?
727
00:40:44,943 --> 00:40:47,610
- When we were growing up,
you and little miss perfect
728
00:40:47,612 --> 00:40:49,913
belonged to a club
I couldn't join.
729
00:40:49,915 --> 00:40:52,348
It didn't bother Michael,
he was the boy.
730
00:40:52,350 --> 00:40:54,951
But I was the outsider
and I still am.
731
00:40:54,953 --> 00:40:57,854
- You were never the outsider
even when you wanted to be.
732
00:40:57,856 --> 00:41:00,089
- Wanted to be!
- You were always testing us.
733
00:41:00,091 --> 00:41:02,425
Breaking the rules to see
what would happen.
734
00:41:02,427 --> 00:41:06,362
Jenny was easy. -You have never
loved me as much as you love Jenny!
735
00:41:06,364 --> 00:41:08,498
- That is not true!
736
00:41:08,500 --> 00:41:11,835
Oh, I love all my children the same.
- No, you don't!
737
00:41:11,837 --> 00:41:15,438
God, if you did you wouldn't
have lied to me.
738
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,574
You made a fool out me!
739
00:41:17,576 --> 00:41:20,443
Letting me go on and on about
all that married man bullshit
740
00:41:20,445 --> 00:41:22,846
just to keep your secrets!
741
00:41:22,848 --> 00:41:25,415
As usual,
the two of you against me.
742
00:41:25,417 --> 00:41:26,716
What kind of love is that!
743
00:41:47,238 --> 00:41:48,872
- Mom.
744
00:41:48,874 --> 00:41:50,540
Whatever you've got to tell me
you gotta tell me fast.
745
00:41:50,542 --> 00:41:52,876
I've got to be in court in an
hour, and you wouldn't believe it
746
00:41:52,878 --> 00:41:54,811
this couple left their
5-year-old son
747
00:41:54,813 --> 00:41:57,380
locked in their apartment
while they went on vacation.
748
00:41:57,382 --> 00:41:59,682
And now of course they want...
- Anne knows.
749
00:41:59,684 --> 00:42:01,317
- Knows what?
- About you and Kitty.
750
00:42:01,319 --> 00:42:03,620
She saw you this morning
at Nordstrom.
751
00:42:03,622 --> 00:42:07,924
She's... she's very angry
about being lied to.
752
00:42:10,728 --> 00:42:13,429
I know I got it wrong, I know.
753
00:42:13,431 --> 00:42:17,333
But ever since
you were a little girl...
754
00:42:17,335 --> 00:42:19,536
I've thought about
your wedding.
755
00:42:19,538 --> 00:42:23,573
I imagined helping you pick out
your silver and flatware
756
00:42:23,575 --> 00:42:26,442
your china and helping
you pick out your dress.
757
00:42:26,444 --> 00:42:28,611
Now, I don't even know
if you'll wear a dress.
758
00:42:28,613 --> 00:42:32,715
Maybe you'll wear a suit or, or maybe you'll
wear a dress and Kitty will wear a suit...
759
00:42:32,717 --> 00:42:34,117
- We're both wearing dresses.
760
00:42:34,119 --> 00:42:35,652
- And where will you
get married?
761
00:42:35,654 --> 00:42:37,487
Not in the church,
the church won't allow it.
762
00:42:37,489 --> 00:42:40,123
- But that doesn't mean
God won't allow it.
763
00:42:40,125 --> 00:42:42,525
- The thing is...
764
00:42:42,527 --> 00:42:46,863
I'm not good
at making things up.
765
00:42:46,865 --> 00:42:49,532
When I cook I use a cookbook.
766
00:42:49,534 --> 00:42:52,068
And the way you dance, I don't...
I don't like dancing, like that.
767
00:42:52,070 --> 00:42:56,039
I... I like steps. I like,
I like dances with steps.
768
00:42:56,041 --> 00:42:57,941
Like, that one,
you know that one...
769
00:42:57,943 --> 00:43:00,043
- The conga line?
- Yeah.
770
00:43:00,045 --> 00:43:02,045
- It doesn't have steps.
771
00:43:02,047 --> 00:43:05,782
- Well, but I always
do the same ones.
772
00:43:05,784 --> 00:43:08,051
I love the conga line.
773
00:43:08,053 --> 00:43:09,919
I know the steps to that one
774
00:43:09,921 --> 00:43:12,388
but I don't know
the steps to this one.
775
00:43:12,390 --> 00:43:16,192
- And you think I do? Really?
776
00:43:16,194 --> 00:43:18,928
I don't like making it up as I
go along any more than you do.
777
00:43:18,930 --> 00:43:21,497
But I don't have a choice.
778
00:43:21,499 --> 00:43:25,068
Oh, Mom, you can pretend all you
want, that nothing has changed.
779
00:43:25,070 --> 00:43:27,003
But I have.
780
00:43:27,005 --> 00:43:31,941
And I'm not lying about who I am
to anybody, ever again.
781
00:43:31,943 --> 00:43:34,210
Not even for you.
782
00:43:34,212 --> 00:43:36,913
Because if I do...
783
00:43:36,915 --> 00:43:40,283
I'll ruin what's good in me.
784
00:43:41,619 --> 00:43:46,656
You... you raised me
to... to do the right thing.
785
00:43:46,658 --> 00:43:49,192
And... and be proud of myself.
786
00:43:49,194 --> 00:43:52,095
Don't you want me
to be that person anymore?
787
00:43:58,936 --> 00:44:01,537
The lying is over.
788
00:44:01,539 --> 00:44:03,740
You and Dad are going to have
to make up your mind about me
789
00:44:03,742 --> 00:44:05,942
because I am getting married...
790
00:44:05,944 --> 00:44:07,810
and I'm going to have children.
791
00:44:07,812 --> 00:44:11,114
I'm going to have
a happy and full life.
792
00:44:11,116 --> 00:44:14,017
And I'm not hiding it... anymore.
793
00:44:14,019 --> 00:44:18,721
So if you can't handle that it'll have to
be your problem from now on. Not mine.
794
00:45:01,266 --> 00:45:03,466
- You knew?
- Well, I...
795
00:45:03,468 --> 00:45:07,103
I mean, not for sure,
but yeah, I knew.
796
00:45:07,105 --> 00:45:08,805
- Since when?
797
00:45:10,374 --> 00:45:12,375
- High school.
798
00:45:14,311 --> 00:45:18,181
- Well, then why were you always trying
to set me up with your friends?
799
00:45:18,183 --> 00:45:20,183
- Mom and Dad asked me to.
800
00:45:23,754 --> 00:45:25,354
- Well in case you're wondering
801
00:45:25,356 --> 00:45:28,091
they are not coming
to the wedding.
802
00:45:29,426 --> 00:45:32,195
And you don't have to either
if you don't want to.
803
00:45:32,197 --> 00:45:34,530
- Why wouldn't I want
to come to your wedding?
804
00:45:34,532 --> 00:45:36,466
- Because it doesn't
stop there.
805
00:45:36,468 --> 00:45:39,168
- We want a family,
and I'm sure you do not approve.
806
00:45:39,170 --> 00:45:42,004
- God, Jenny.
807
00:45:42,006 --> 00:45:43,906
Sometimes you are really dim.
808
00:45:43,908 --> 00:45:45,708
I mean, has it ever
occurred to you
809
00:45:45,710 --> 00:45:49,746
that if you spend your life, lying
to people about who you are...
810
00:45:49,748 --> 00:45:52,515
you never get to know
who they are.
811
00:45:52,517 --> 00:45:55,084
Look, I don't disapprove. Okay?
812
00:45:55,086 --> 00:45:57,720
I'm coming to your wedding.
You're my sister.
813
00:46:02,993 --> 00:46:06,129
- You know, I just, I really
was dreading telling you.
814
00:46:06,131 --> 00:46:09,699
- Why? -Because you're... you're
the most like Mom and Dad.
815
00:46:09,701 --> 00:46:12,101
- No, I'm not, Jenny.
816
00:46:14,605 --> 00:46:16,072
You are.
817
00:47:05,289 --> 00:47:06,622
- So?
818
00:47:08,659 --> 00:47:11,661
- I'm sorry.
- For what, being the favorite?
819
00:47:11,663 --> 00:47:13,095
- What?
820
00:47:13,097 --> 00:47:15,364
- Do you think you'd be getting
away with this if you weren't?
821
00:47:15,366 --> 00:47:18,034
- First of all,
this isn't a stunt, Anne.
822
00:47:18,036 --> 00:47:19,836
This is my life.
823
00:47:19,838 --> 00:47:23,005
Secondly, I'm not getting away
with anything.
824
00:47:23,007 --> 00:47:24,340
I am nobody's favorite,
not anymore.
825
00:47:24,342 --> 00:47:26,776
So you need to just,
get over it.
826
00:47:29,079 --> 00:47:31,514
- Feeling unloved is not
something you just get over.
827
00:47:31,516 --> 00:47:34,584
- Yes. It is.
You just have to grow up.
828
00:47:34,586 --> 00:47:37,019
- Why did you come here, Jenny,
to pick a fight?
829
00:47:37,021 --> 00:47:38,454
- No.
830
00:47:39,857 --> 00:47:41,157
No, I...
831
00:47:41,159 --> 00:47:44,694
I wanted to say
I was sorry for not telling you.
832
00:47:44,696 --> 00:47:47,730
I wanted to, but Mom,
couldn't handle it.
833
00:47:47,732 --> 00:47:50,433
We're sisters! Why didn't
you tell me years ago?
834
00:47:50,435 --> 00:47:53,369
- Come on, Anne. We never really
shared our secrets with one another.
835
00:47:53,371 --> 00:47:54,737
And for good reason.
836
00:47:54,739 --> 00:47:57,039
Instead of just coming to me
when you saw me with Kitty
837
00:47:57,041 --> 00:47:58,975
you ran straight to Mom.
838
00:48:00,510 --> 00:48:02,144
- Fair enough.
839
00:48:04,648 --> 00:48:06,616
- Can I come in?
- No.
840
00:48:08,252 --> 00:48:10,953
You'll over excite the kids,
and Frankie's asleep.
841
00:48:15,592 --> 00:48:17,593
But have a seat.
842
00:48:26,103 --> 00:48:27,270
- So there's something
I want to ask you...
843
00:48:27,272 --> 00:48:29,152
- My wedding gown
won't fit you.
844
00:48:30,841 --> 00:48:32,708
- I don't want
to wear your wedding gown.
845
00:48:32,710 --> 00:48:37,680
Um, I wanted to know if you
would be my maid of honor.
846
00:48:38,949 --> 00:48:40,616
If you don't want to, it's okay
847
00:48:40,618 --> 00:48:43,185
but, it would mean a lot to me
if you would.
848
00:48:46,657 --> 00:48:48,724
- You want me to be
your maid of honor?
849
00:48:48,726 --> 00:48:50,226
- Well, yeah.
850
00:48:50,228 --> 00:48:52,828
I was yours,
and you're my sister.
851
00:48:52,830 --> 00:48:54,163
- I know, but...
852
00:48:57,067 --> 00:48:58,367
I don't know.
853
00:48:58,369 --> 00:49:00,469
I always felt like...
854
00:49:02,339 --> 00:49:05,174
you acted like
I wasn't in your league.
855
00:49:06,209 --> 00:49:09,045
- Anne... it was never that.
856
00:49:09,047 --> 00:49:10,346
Okay, it was never that.
857
00:49:10,348 --> 00:49:13,849
I just... I was in hiding.
858
00:49:13,851 --> 00:49:16,953
And I just really couldn't
afford to get close to you.
859
00:49:17,688 --> 00:49:19,055
- Dad!
860
00:49:20,724 --> 00:49:24,427
- I, uh, I can't
talk about this... right now.
861
00:49:24,429 --> 00:49:26,629
I have to go.
862
00:49:26,631 --> 00:49:28,497
- Okay.
863
00:49:28,499 --> 00:49:30,599
- I'll call you later, okay?
- Mm-hmm.
864
00:49:32,970 --> 00:49:34,770
- How long have you been
with Kitty?
865
00:49:34,772 --> 00:49:36,105
-5 years.
866
00:49:37,741 --> 00:49:40,376
- When I saw you kissing,
you looked really...
867
00:49:42,012 --> 00:49:43,512
really happy.
868
00:49:49,553 --> 00:49:51,554
That grass is completely dead.
869
00:49:53,690 --> 00:49:55,224
- It's winter.
870
00:49:56,727 --> 00:49:59,362
- Yeah, I know, but...
871
00:49:59,364 --> 00:50:02,164
It's always dead.
Even in the spring.
872
00:50:06,003 --> 00:50:08,571
- Dad! Dad!
873
00:50:08,573 --> 00:50:10,573
- I gotta go.
874
00:50:11,775 --> 00:50:13,542
Frankie!
875
00:50:15,145 --> 00:50:16,312
What are you doing?
876
00:50:16,314 --> 00:50:18,147
- I don't have any cash.
877
00:50:18,149 --> 00:50:20,816
- Get it out of the bank
like I do. I'm not an ATM.
878
00:50:20,818 --> 00:50:22,752
Why are you all dressed up?
Where are you going?
879
00:50:22,754 --> 00:50:24,954
- Um, didn't I tell you?
Pete called.
880
00:50:24,956 --> 00:50:26,856
He wants to talk to me
about something.
881
00:50:26,858 --> 00:50:28,591
Business probably.
882
00:50:28,593 --> 00:50:29,859
- Business?
883
00:50:29,861 --> 00:50:32,928
You and Pete
are unarmed security guards.
884
00:50:34,364 --> 00:50:36,365
- Don't wait up. You know Pete.
885
00:50:38,435 --> 00:50:40,636
- Why don't you ever
water the grass?
886
00:50:41,838 --> 00:50:43,606
- Why would I water the grass
in the winter?
887
00:50:43,608 --> 00:50:47,510
- Because you never water it even in
the summer and it's always dead.
888
00:50:47,512 --> 00:50:49,412
- Okay, if it bothers you
so much, why don't you water it?
889
00:50:49,414 --> 00:50:52,948
- Because it's not my job! I do
everything else around here!
890
00:50:52,950 --> 00:50:55,885
You could at least do that!
891
00:50:55,887 --> 00:50:58,621
- I gotta go.
892
00:51:10,801 --> 00:51:12,868
- I don't understand
why she hasn't called.
893
00:51:12,870 --> 00:51:15,938
I've left 6 messages,
you've left 4.
894
00:51:15,940 --> 00:51:17,740
- 5.
- 5.
895
00:51:19,443 --> 00:51:22,545
- Ah, just things went
a little too far, that's all.
896
00:51:22,547 --> 00:51:24,880
She'll call when she calms down.
897
00:51:24,882 --> 00:51:28,117
- You weren't there, Eddie.
I've never seen her like that.
898
00:51:28,119 --> 00:51:31,921
- No, no. She'll calm down.
What's she gonna do?
899
00:51:31,923 --> 00:51:34,256
Never call us again? Hmm?
900
00:51:44,868 --> 00:51:47,603
- I don't, I don't want
to go in there.
901
00:51:53,210 --> 00:51:55,344
- I want you here.
902
00:52:07,624 --> 00:52:09,625
- Hi, everybody.
903
00:52:12,929 --> 00:52:16,198
- Kitty. -Hi. Mrs. Farrell,
Mr. Farrell.
904
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:17,633
- Jen.
905
00:52:17,635 --> 00:52:20,402
- When you didn't call back,
I didn't think you were coming.
906
00:52:20,404 --> 00:52:22,138
- Of course I was coming.
907
00:52:22,140 --> 00:52:24,140
Mrs. McMahan was my favorite
neighbor.
908
00:52:26,510 --> 00:52:28,711
Kitty, you remember
Mr. and Mrs. O'Leary.
909
00:52:28,713 --> 00:52:30,713
- Oh, yes.
Yes, nice to see you again.
910
00:52:30,715 --> 00:52:33,048
- Nice to see you, Kitty.
911
00:52:33,050 --> 00:52:35,417
Kitty is Jenny's roommate.
- Oh, right.
912
00:52:35,419 --> 00:52:37,186
- Kitty isn't my roommate,
Mrs. O'Leary.
913
00:52:37,188 --> 00:52:40,422
She is my partner,
and we've been together 5 years.
914
00:52:40,424 --> 00:52:42,758
We're getting married.
915
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,561
We're a little bit old fashioned
so we figured
916
00:52:44,562 --> 00:52:46,795
we'd tie the knot before
starting a family.
917
00:52:49,599 --> 00:52:51,367
- Um, can I talk to you
a minute?
918
00:52:51,369 --> 00:52:53,610
- I was just gonna go in...
- I want to talk first.
919
00:52:58,742 --> 00:53:00,576
- What are you doing? Are you
trying to hurt your mother?
920
00:53:00,578 --> 00:53:01,744
- How am I hurting her?
921
00:53:01,746 --> 00:53:04,113
- By making a scene
at a funeral.
922
00:53:04,115 --> 00:53:06,148
Stutzman's is a place for grief.
923
00:53:06,150 --> 00:53:09,351
If you want to humiliate your mother,
go try and do it someplace else.
924
00:53:09,353 --> 00:53:12,755
- I'm sorry if telling people who I
am and how I live is humiliating.
925
00:53:12,757 --> 00:53:16,792
But I am not gonna pretend to be somebody
else anymore just to make you feel okay.
926
00:53:16,794 --> 00:53:20,296
- Why is it always about you?
It's about her too.
927
00:53:20,298 --> 00:53:24,033
We called you over and over
again, why didn't you reply?
928
00:53:24,035 --> 00:53:27,002
How do you think she felt when you walked
away from her in the arcade the other day?
929
00:53:27,004 --> 00:53:28,537
- Why is it always about her?
930
00:53:28,539 --> 00:53:30,639
Isn't there a you in this?
931
00:53:30,641 --> 00:53:32,942
Why don't you stop
hiding behind Mom
932
00:53:32,944 --> 00:53:34,977
and tell me how it's about you?
933
00:53:34,979 --> 00:53:37,746
- Well, I will, I will
tell you about how I feel.
934
00:53:37,748 --> 00:53:41,150
It's not how I live.
I don't understand any of it.
935
00:53:41,152 --> 00:53:42,651
And I don't understand you.
936
00:53:42,653 --> 00:53:45,654
You're, you're getting married,
but I..
937
00:53:45,656 --> 00:53:47,456
I don't know who's who.
938
00:53:47,458 --> 00:53:48,691
- Who's who?
- Yeah, yeah.
939
00:53:48,693 --> 00:53:50,326
You're both feminine girls.
940
00:53:50,328 --> 00:53:52,394
And I don't know.
941
00:53:52,396 --> 00:53:54,330
I don't know who's,
I don't know what you do.
942
00:53:54,332 --> 00:53:56,899
- What we do?
- And I don't want to.
943
00:53:56,901 --> 00:54:00,135
I just, I mean,
you're my daughter and..
944
00:54:00,137 --> 00:54:01,870
I just don't want
to think about it.
945
00:54:01,872 --> 00:54:04,440
I mean, I spend enough time at
that firehouse. Men are animals.
946
00:54:04,442 --> 00:54:07,509
It's what they think about when
they look at porno movies.
947
00:54:07,511 --> 00:54:11,380
But if, if you were marrying a guy, I wouldn't
think about it. I'd know what you do.
948
00:54:11,382 --> 00:54:13,916
- When I was a kid, I used to hate
to think about you and Mom in bed.
949
00:54:13,918 --> 00:54:16,752
It gave me the creeps,
so I think I know how you feel.
950
00:54:16,754 --> 00:54:18,654
Let me put your mind at rest.
951
00:54:18,656 --> 00:54:20,823
Hey, Kitty.
952
00:54:20,825 --> 00:54:23,759
My dad wants to know if one of
us straps it on in bed.
953
00:54:29,966 --> 00:54:31,834
Oh, I'm sorry, Dad.
She's a little bit funny.
954
00:54:31,836 --> 00:54:35,671
She doesn't like to tell people
what she does or doesn't do in bed!
955
00:54:35,673 --> 00:54:38,407
- I don't know
who you are anymore.
956
00:54:38,409 --> 00:54:40,709
And I don't know if I care.
957
00:54:41,578 --> 00:54:42,845
What's happened to you?
958
00:54:42,847 --> 00:54:45,581
- I'll tell you
what's happened. I grew up.
959
00:54:45,583 --> 00:54:47,650
I used to care so much about
what the two of you thought
960
00:54:47,652 --> 00:54:49,785
but not anymore. Why would I!
961
00:54:49,787 --> 00:54:52,454
How dare you talk to me
about meeting the right person.
962
00:54:52,456 --> 00:54:55,524
Do you know who you meet every
time you or Mom change?
963
00:54:55,526 --> 00:54:58,661
The same couple
of lying cowards.
964
00:54:58,663 --> 00:55:01,964
From now on, I only care about
what I think and what I do.
965
00:55:01,966 --> 00:55:04,300
And if you don't like it,
then you can get out of my life.
966
00:55:04,302 --> 00:55:07,369
Believe me, I will not miss you,
it will be a relief.
967
00:55:07,371 --> 00:55:09,405
If all you can do
is tolerate me
968
00:55:09,407 --> 00:55:11,507
I will be happier
when you're gone.
969
00:55:36,966 --> 00:55:41,003
- Well, uh, it was
nice... seeing you all again.
970
00:55:43,741 --> 00:55:45,974
I have to go.
971
00:56:03,059 --> 00:56:05,127
Your mother will come around.
972
00:56:05,129 --> 00:56:06,895
- No, she won't.
973
00:56:06,897 --> 00:56:09,365
They never do or say anything
without the other
974
00:56:09,367 --> 00:56:12,234
and now he'll never come around.
975
00:56:12,236 --> 00:56:14,069
- Give him time.
976
00:56:14,071 --> 00:56:16,905
- You don't know him.
977
00:56:16,907 --> 00:56:21,310
He lets a lot of stuff go
but... I called him out tonight.
978
00:56:21,312 --> 00:56:25,681
I...I made him look like a fool
in public and now he'll never
979
00:56:25,683 --> 00:56:30,085
get over that, and he hardly
ever shuts the door
980
00:56:30,087 --> 00:56:32,254
but when he does it,
it stays shut.
981
00:56:33,656 --> 00:56:35,023
Not that I care.
982
00:56:35,025 --> 00:56:37,993
Because I'm not apologizing
to anybody for anything.
983
00:56:41,698 --> 00:56:43,866
- We have to talk
about this, Eddie.
984
00:56:45,602 --> 00:56:49,905
- I already told you.
I got nothing to say.
985
00:56:49,907 --> 00:56:52,007
- I'm not trying to defend her.
She said ter...
986
00:56:52,009 --> 00:56:54,309
- Rose. Are you deaf?
987
00:56:54,311 --> 00:56:57,179
I just told you, I've got
nothing to say. I mean it.
988
00:56:57,181 --> 00:57:00,215
So don't bring it up
with me again. Ever.
989
00:57:08,359 --> 00:57:09,825
- Rose.
990
00:57:09,827 --> 00:57:11,960
Rose.
991
00:57:11,962 --> 00:57:14,229
Rose.
992
00:57:14,231 --> 00:57:17,065
- Hi, Ellen. Hi.
993
00:57:17,067 --> 00:57:19,001
- I've been so worried.
994
00:57:19,003 --> 00:57:21,970
I left messages all week,
but you never called back.
995
00:57:21,972 --> 00:57:23,739
- Are you okay?
- I'm fine.
996
00:57:23,741 --> 00:57:29,278
- Oh, how can you be fine after that
disgraceful incident at Stutzman's?
997
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:33,715
The things she said
were... unforgivable.
998
00:57:33,717 --> 00:57:35,884
I just hope you're not blaming
yourselves for any of this
999
00:57:35,886 --> 00:57:38,454
because you've both
been great parents.
1000
00:57:39,989 --> 00:57:42,524
Did you know about them before?
1001
00:57:42,526 --> 00:57:44,726
- We knew before.
1002
00:57:44,728 --> 00:57:47,996
- I'd have lied about
the married man too.
1003
00:57:47,998 --> 00:57:51,099
Well, you're doing
the right thing.
1004
00:57:53,136 --> 00:57:54,436
- What am I doing?
1005
00:57:54,438 --> 00:57:56,805
- Turning your back
on all of it.
1006
00:57:59,309 --> 00:58:02,077
- I can't talk now, Ellen,
I have to go.
1007
00:58:02,079 --> 00:58:04,780
- Christmas will be hard,
but just remember
1008
00:58:04,782 --> 00:58:06,148
you're doing the right thing.
1009
00:58:06,150 --> 00:58:09,751
And any time you want to talk,
I'm right here.
1010
00:58:23,833 --> 00:58:26,101
- Hey, Eddie. How you doing?
1011
00:58:26,103 --> 00:58:28,103
- Yeah. I'm fine.
1012
00:58:35,612 --> 00:58:37,946
Um...
1013
00:58:37,948 --> 00:58:41,884
Did you tell the guys what happened
at Stutzman's the other day?
1014
00:58:41,886 --> 00:58:44,987
- No. Come on, Eddie.
1015
00:58:44,989 --> 00:58:47,956
I'd never talk about your private
business with anybody. You know that.
1016
00:58:47,958 --> 00:58:51,627
They don't,
they don't know anything.
1017
00:58:51,629 --> 00:58:52,794
Listen, Eddie,
I gotta tell you.
1018
00:58:52,796 --> 00:58:55,430
I... I think
this whole thing stinks.
1019
00:58:55,432 --> 00:58:57,566
As good as you
and Rose have been
1020
00:58:57,568 --> 00:59:00,235
this is the way Jenny
turns around and pays you back?
1021
00:59:02,405 --> 00:59:04,673
- Yeah. I don't wanna
talk about it.
1022
00:59:04,675 --> 00:59:06,642
- No. Okay.
1023
00:59:10,179 --> 00:59:13,148
You know, it's funny.
Her name is Kitty.
1024
00:59:15,151 --> 00:59:18,587
- What?
- The girl's name is Kitty.
1025
00:59:18,589 --> 00:59:22,758
I mean, first Jenny was with a
married man, and his name was Kitty.
1026
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,227
Now, her name is Kitty.
1027
00:59:45,249 --> 00:59:48,350
- Hello.
- Hi, honey.
1028
00:59:48,352 --> 00:59:51,253
- Ugh. Hi, Mom. What's up?
1029
00:59:52,522 --> 00:59:56,224
- Uh, nothing, I just
called to see how you are.
1030
00:59:56,226 --> 01:00:00,295
- Fine, and you?
- I'm fine. How are the kids?
1031
01:00:00,297 --> 01:00:04,766
- Fine.
- And uh, Frankie?
1032
01:00:04,768 --> 01:00:06,768
- Frankie's fine.
1033
01:00:06,770 --> 01:00:08,570
Mom, did you call for a reason
1034
01:00:08,572 --> 01:00:12,507
'cause I'm standing in
the driveway, and it's raining.
1035
01:00:12,509 --> 01:00:15,711
And I have a pile of groceries
and a sleeping baby.
1036
01:00:15,713 --> 01:00:18,880
- No. No reason, it's not
raining here yet though.
1037
01:00:18,882 --> 01:00:22,017
I... I... I just called
to say hello.
1038
01:00:22,019 --> 01:00:24,019
- Okay. I'll call you back
later.
1039
01:00:24,021 --> 01:00:26,622
- I love you, Anne.
- Yeah, okay, bye.
1040
01:01:06,763 --> 01:01:09,064
- Okay. What do you think?
1041
01:01:11,901 --> 01:01:13,902
- It's perfect.
1042
01:01:13,904 --> 01:01:15,804
- I've always dreamed
of wearing a dress like this.
1043
01:01:15,806 --> 01:01:17,806
- Oh, you look beautiful.
1044
01:01:23,780 --> 01:01:25,113
- Oh, wow.
1045
01:01:25,115 --> 01:01:28,016
- Well, now I don't know
who looks more beautiful.
1046
01:01:28,018 --> 01:01:29,484
Is this a double wedding?
1047
01:01:29,486 --> 01:01:31,887
- Yes.
1048
01:01:31,889 --> 01:01:33,255
- Well, then I'll leave
you two alone to think.
1049
01:01:33,257 --> 01:01:35,657
I know you'll want to come back
with your mothers.
1050
01:01:39,629 --> 01:01:41,530
- This dress isn't right.
It's not right.
1051
01:01:41,532 --> 01:01:44,833
It's too traditional.
1052
01:01:44,835 --> 01:01:46,668
- Well, what's wrong
with traditional?
1053
01:01:46,670 --> 01:01:48,670
- You want to wear the tux?
1054
01:01:52,542 --> 01:01:55,243
- My mother's
not here either, Jenny.
1055
01:01:55,245 --> 01:01:58,513
- I know.
Your mother's in Portland.
1056
01:01:58,515 --> 01:02:01,450
Mine is 20 minutes up
the road in rush hour traffic.
1057
01:02:27,477 --> 01:02:29,544
- Tell me something. -If it's about
Mom, I don't want to hear it.
1058
01:02:29,546 --> 01:02:30,812
It's not about Mom.
1059
01:02:30,814 --> 01:02:34,516
I know you live in a condo,
but if you had grass
1060
01:02:34,518 --> 01:02:36,551
would it be dead or alive?
1061
01:02:38,488 --> 01:02:40,522
- It would be alive.
1062
01:02:40,524 --> 01:02:42,824
- Just as I thought.
1063
01:02:42,826 --> 01:02:45,794
Happy people
do not have dead grass.
1064
01:02:55,037 --> 01:02:57,038
- I quit the bowling team.
1065
01:02:58,941 --> 01:03:01,777
- Why?
1066
01:03:01,779 --> 01:03:03,779
- They're talking
behind my back.
1067
01:03:06,983 --> 01:03:09,651
- Can you do that?
1068
01:03:09,653 --> 01:03:12,573
- Do what? -Quit the bowling team.
You're the treasurer.
1069
01:03:13,890 --> 01:03:15,957
- Yes. I can do that.
1070
01:03:19,095 --> 01:03:21,830
Don't you want to know what
they're saying behind my back?
1071
01:03:25,935 --> 01:03:27,402
- No.
1072
01:03:30,706 --> 01:03:33,675
- You can't
just not talk about this, Eddie.
1073
01:03:42,786 --> 01:03:44,553
- We've lost our daughter!
1074
01:04:09,579 --> 01:04:12,514
- Hello.
- Hi, Anne. It's me.
1075
01:04:12,516 --> 01:04:16,218
- Ugh. Hi, Mom. How are you?
- I'm fine.
1076
01:04:16,220 --> 01:04:19,588
Doing a little... house work.
1077
01:04:19,590 --> 01:04:21,323
How are you?
1078
01:04:21,325 --> 01:04:23,091
- Oh, I'm fine.
1079
01:04:23,093 --> 01:04:26,294
- How about Frankie
and the kids? They okay?
1080
01:04:26,296 --> 01:04:27,929
- They're-they're fine.
1081
01:04:27,931 --> 01:04:31,433
- Have you seen, uh, Michael
and Lorraine at all?
1082
01:04:31,435 --> 01:04:35,804
- Oh, for God's sake, Mom, if you want to
know how Jenny is, call her. Don't call me.
1083
01:04:35,806 --> 01:04:38,473
- I know that's
what all these calls are about.
1084
01:04:38,475 --> 01:04:41,943
Listen, there's something
I... I... I have to do.
1085
01:04:41,945 --> 01:04:44,045
I'll... I'll
call you later, okay?
1086
01:04:44,047 --> 01:04:46,948
- Okay. I love you, Anne.
- Oh, my God.
1087
01:04:46,950 --> 01:04:49,885
Will you please stop saying that, it's
turned into your personal greeting!
1088
01:04:49,887 --> 01:04:52,721
- I'm sorry.
I just wanted you to know.
1089
01:04:52,723 --> 01:04:54,356
- Uh, yeah. I know, I know,
I know, I know.
1090
01:04:54,358 --> 01:04:56,658
We all love each other,
and I have to go. Goodbye.
1091
01:07:23,706 --> 01:07:27,042
- And they never
talk about it. Not a word.
1092
01:07:27,044 --> 01:07:29,611
- I wouldn't either
if it was my daughter.
1093
01:07:29,613 --> 01:07:32,847
- They were such good parents.
1094
01:07:32,849 --> 01:07:35,784
- Well, they must have done
something wrong.
1095
01:07:35,786 --> 01:07:38,720
- We've all had problems with
our kids, but nothing like this.
1096
01:07:38,722 --> 01:07:41,356
- I really feel sorry for them.
1097
01:07:41,358 --> 01:07:43,625
And this wedding
is embarrassing enough
1098
01:07:43,627 --> 01:07:46,828
but those two are planning
on having children.
1099
01:07:46,830 --> 01:07:50,865
How can they have a normal life
growing up in that house?
1100
01:07:50,867 --> 01:07:53,001
- It isn't right.
1101
01:07:53,003 --> 01:07:56,671
- Since when did you two become such big
experts on what's normal and right?
1102
01:07:56,673 --> 01:07:58,440
- Rose.
We didn't mean anything.
1103
01:07:58,442 --> 01:07:59,874
We're just worried about you.
1104
01:07:59,876 --> 01:08:01,042
- Tell me, Marion.
1105
01:08:01,044 --> 01:08:02,977
Is it normal and right
for your, your daughter
1106
01:08:02,979 --> 01:08:05,013
to get pregnant
by every passing stranger
1107
01:08:05,015 --> 01:08:07,082
and leave you to raise the kids?
1108
01:08:07,084 --> 01:08:11,252
Or for... for... for Karen and her
bum of a husband to never get a job
1109
01:08:11,254 --> 01:08:13,488
and... and rob you and Denny
1110
01:08:13,490 --> 01:08:15,557
of every last penny
of your retirement savings!
1111
01:08:15,559 --> 01:08:19,761
That's all normal and right just
because the men sleep with women!
1112
01:08:19,763 --> 01:08:22,163
And the women sleep with men!
1113
01:08:22,165 --> 01:08:25,300
But Jenny, who is... who is.
...Who is...
1114
01:08:25,302 --> 01:08:27,402
is generous and kind
1115
01:08:27,404 --> 01:08:29,637
and has never hurt anyone...
1116
01:08:29,639 --> 01:08:33,975
isn't normal and right, because she
wants to marry the woman she loves.
1117
01:08:35,578 --> 01:08:39,114
Jenny is good. And I love her.
1118
01:08:39,116 --> 01:08:42,717
And the only thing that
isn't normal and right is...
1119
01:08:42,719 --> 01:08:44,786
is me turning my back on that.
1120
01:08:44,788 --> 01:08:46,287
Oh, my...
1121
01:09:14,417 --> 01:09:16,918
- Hello.
- It's Mom.
1122
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:19,287
Can you come down?
1123
01:09:42,511 --> 01:09:44,145
- I saw a dress.
1124
01:09:45,915 --> 01:09:48,183
Months ago,
I saw a wedding dress.
1125
01:09:48,185 --> 01:09:49,350
I knew you'd look good in.
1126
01:09:49,352 --> 01:09:51,686
You still might be
able to get it.
1127
01:09:56,025 --> 01:09:58,326
I'm sorry, Jenny.
1128
01:09:59,428 --> 01:10:01,996
I'm so sorry for all of it.
1129
01:10:03,799 --> 01:10:07,602
And if you'll let me. I'd like to
help you pick out your wedding dress.
1130
01:10:09,104 --> 01:10:11,472
I want to be
part of your marriage.
1131
01:10:13,142 --> 01:10:17,011
I want to be part of everything
you do for the rest of your life.
1132
01:10:55,986 --> 01:10:58,052
- You're late.
You take 90 again?
1133
01:10:58,054 --> 01:11:01,055
- No. I took Carnegie.
- Oh, well.
1134
01:11:01,057 --> 01:11:05,360
Traffic on Carnegie can be
pretty bad after 3:00 too.
1135
01:11:05,362 --> 01:11:07,428
- I wasn't stuck in traffic.
1136
01:11:09,031 --> 01:11:11,032
I was with Jenny.
1137
01:11:16,038 --> 01:11:18,473
I want us to be
a part of the wedding.
1138
01:11:30,085 --> 01:11:33,405
We've always done everything together
for as long as we've been married.
1139
01:11:34,757 --> 01:11:39,360
But... I'll do this alone
if I have to.
1140
01:11:46,769 --> 01:11:49,237
At least talk to me about it.
- No.
1141
01:11:51,206 --> 01:11:53,141
No.
1142
01:11:55,110 --> 01:11:57,779
No, you've made your choice,
I've made mine.
1143
01:11:57,781 --> 01:12:00,181
I don't want to explain
it to anybody.
1144
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,421
- What are you
so happy about, Eddie?
1145
01:12:40,423 --> 01:12:43,424
- What?
- Nothing. Just a joke.
1146
01:13:03,679 --> 01:13:05,446
- Why isn't Denny O'Leary
here today?
1147
01:13:05,448 --> 01:13:07,715
- He changed
his shift yesterday.
1148
01:13:07,717 --> 01:13:09,217
- How come?
1149
01:13:09,219 --> 01:13:11,786
- I don't know.
Said it was personal.
1150
01:13:13,756 --> 01:13:16,924
- I've been on with him since
we were probies together.
1151
01:13:16,926 --> 01:13:20,528
- Lieutenant said he asked to change his
shift and wouldn't take no for an answer.
1152
01:13:26,268 --> 01:13:29,771
- I've known him since we were
in first grade together.
1153
01:13:29,773 --> 01:13:31,506
- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.
1154
01:13:31,508 --> 01:13:33,508
- That's a long time.
1155
01:13:38,380 --> 01:13:40,381
- Yeah. It is.
1156
01:13:51,026 --> 01:13:53,494
- What is that?
- Oh, look, you're awake.
1157
01:13:53,496 --> 01:13:55,563
- What? -Get up. I want
to show you something.
1158
01:13:55,565 --> 01:13:58,065
- Are you crazy? Do you have any idea
what time I went to bed last night?
1159
01:13:58,067 --> 01:14:01,869
- I said, get up. Look outside.
1160
01:14:08,811 --> 01:14:11,679
- At what?
- The grass.
1161
01:14:11,681 --> 01:14:14,382
- What about the grass?
1162
01:14:14,384 --> 01:14:16,617
- It's green.
1163
01:14:16,619 --> 01:14:19,020
- You think I care what color
the grass is?
1164
01:14:19,022 --> 01:14:21,923
- No. I don't.
1165
01:14:27,329 --> 01:14:29,697
- What are you doing?
- Packing your stuff.
1166
01:14:29,699 --> 01:14:30,865
You're moving out. -What?
1167
01:14:30,867 --> 01:14:32,233
I don't want to be married
to you anymore.
1168
01:14:32,235 --> 01:14:34,936
I would leave, but I don't think
it's good to move the kids
1169
01:14:34,938 --> 01:14:36,704
so you have to go.
1170
01:14:36,706 --> 01:14:38,806
- Come on, Anne, I know things
haven't been that...
1171
01:14:38,808 --> 01:14:42,343
- Stop. I'm not interested
in anything you have to say.
1172
01:14:42,345 --> 01:14:44,178
- You can't just kick me out
without talking about it.
1173
01:14:44,180 --> 01:14:46,380
- Why would we start talking
now. We haven't talked in years!
1174
01:14:46,382 --> 01:14:48,249
- 'Cause I have a right to know
why you're doing this.
1175
01:14:48,251 --> 01:14:49,784
- The grass.
1176
01:14:49,786 --> 01:14:51,853
- The grass?
- Yes.
1177
01:14:51,855 --> 01:14:57,124
When I looked at the dead grass,
I realized, I was unhappy.
1178
01:14:57,126 --> 01:15:00,495
Happy people
don't have dead grass.
1179
01:15:00,497 --> 01:15:03,898
And... and then it was like,
the chicken and the egg.
1180
01:15:03,900 --> 01:15:05,366
I couldn't figure out
which came first.
1181
01:15:05,368 --> 01:15:07,902
Happiness or green grass.
1182
01:15:09,905 --> 01:15:11,305
So I started watering it.
1183
01:15:11,307 --> 01:15:14,175
And the more I started watering
it, the happier I felt.
1184
01:15:17,679 --> 01:15:19,814
And then it came back to life.
1185
01:15:23,018 --> 01:15:25,453
- I don't blame you
for kicking Frankie out.
1186
01:15:25,455 --> 01:15:29,690
The guy's a bum.
But you know, grass is grass.
1187
01:15:29,692 --> 01:15:32,960
- No, it's not.
You don't have dead grass.
1188
01:15:32,962 --> 01:15:34,662
Michael doesn't have dead grass.
1189
01:15:34,664 --> 01:15:37,098
- No.
- Happy people don't.
1190
01:15:37,100 --> 01:15:40,535
And I never saw it until Jenny
came over and she was so happy.
1191
01:15:42,004 --> 01:15:45,439
I saw the dead grass
for the first time.
1192
01:15:45,441 --> 01:15:49,410
- I'll be right back.
I just have to change my order.
1193
01:15:49,412 --> 01:15:52,980
- She wouldn't have dead grass
any more than you would, Dad.
1194
01:15:54,449 --> 01:15:56,751
She doesn't settle
for less either.
1195
01:16:02,190 --> 01:16:04,191
- I don't know
where to seat anyone.
1196
01:16:04,193 --> 01:16:06,994
We're having twice
as many as we planned on having.
1197
01:16:06,996 --> 01:16:08,696
- I know.
Does it really matter?
1198
01:16:08,698 --> 01:16:11,365
Isn't everyone just
gonna be moving around anyway?
1199
01:16:11,367 --> 01:16:12,733
- Yeah.
1200
01:16:18,006 --> 01:16:20,274
- It's my father's
birthday today.
1201
01:16:21,343 --> 01:16:24,645
- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.
1202
01:16:24,647 --> 01:16:27,214
They're throwing a party for him
at my parents' house.
1203
01:16:30,752 --> 01:16:33,087
I'm gonna take a break, okay?
- Sure.
1204
01:16:43,198 --> 01:16:45,499
- He should know.
I should tell him.
1205
01:16:45,501 --> 01:16:48,569
- Michael should tell him.
He's the one doing it.
1206
01:16:48,571 --> 01:16:51,305
- I don't want to put,
I don't want to...
1207
01:16:51,307 --> 01:16:53,708
- What are you guys
talking about?
1208
01:16:53,710 --> 01:16:55,176
- Nothing.
1209
01:16:56,445 --> 01:16:58,312
- Are you sure?
1210
01:16:58,314 --> 01:17:00,514
- Yeah. No, I'll, uh,
I'll tell him.
1211
01:17:05,354 --> 01:17:06,754
Hey, listen, Dad...
1212
01:17:08,423 --> 01:17:13,127
uh, Jenny asked me
to walk her down the aisle.
1213
01:17:15,931 --> 01:17:17,832
And I said yes.
1214
01:20:06,735 --> 01:20:10,838
- What are you staring at?
- Nothing.
1215
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:14,241
I saw Rose leave for
the wedding. She looked pretty.
1216
01:20:14,243 --> 01:20:16,777
- That is not a real wedding.
1217
01:20:16,779 --> 01:20:20,114
- Okay. I saw them leave
for the fake wedding.
1218
01:20:21,983 --> 01:20:23,517
No sign of Eddie.
1219
01:20:23,519 --> 01:20:25,719
- Well, at least he's got
his head screwed on right.
1220
01:20:25,721 --> 01:20:27,888
- Honey.
1221
01:20:27,890 --> 01:20:30,858
We were there the night
Jenny was born.
1222
01:20:30,860 --> 01:20:34,562
We'd always thought
that we'd be at her wedding.
1223
01:20:34,564 --> 01:20:37,665
- What makes you think
two women getting dressed up
1224
01:20:37,667 --> 01:20:41,335
in wedding gowns and prancing
down some hotel aisle
1225
01:20:41,337 --> 01:20:43,537
is the same as getting married?
1226
01:20:45,807 --> 01:20:47,441
- Jenny does.
1227
01:20:48,276 --> 01:20:49,443
- What?
1228
01:20:50,612 --> 01:20:52,613
- Jenny makes me think it.
1229
01:21:43,899 --> 01:21:44,999
- What are you doing here?
1230
01:21:45,001 --> 01:21:47,868
- I saw you drive up and uh...
1231
01:21:47,870 --> 01:21:50,404
door was unlocked so...
1232
01:21:50,406 --> 01:21:52,740
Look, um...
1233
01:21:54,976 --> 01:21:56,744
Maybe Ellen deserved it.
1234
01:21:56,746 --> 01:21:59,346
I mean, we both know
how she can get.
1235
01:21:59,348 --> 01:22:03,050
But you know, Rose said
some bad things to her and...
1236
01:22:03,052 --> 01:22:05,352
when something
really bothers me...
1237
01:22:05,354 --> 01:22:06,787
I'm like you.
1238
01:22:06,789 --> 01:22:09,323
You know, I... I dig in.
1239
01:22:12,661 --> 01:22:15,829
We've known each other
a long time and...
1240
01:22:15,831 --> 01:22:18,999
if I don't dig myself out...
1241
01:22:19,001 --> 01:22:21,235
I lose.
1242
01:22:21,237 --> 01:22:24,004
And that's why I'm here.
To dig myself out.
1243
01:22:25,707 --> 01:22:27,508
- How do you do that?
1244
01:22:29,577 --> 01:22:31,512
- I don't know.
1245
01:22:31,514 --> 01:22:34,315
I never had to do it before.
1246
01:22:34,317 --> 01:22:37,584
I guess I start with me,
I mean...
1247
01:22:37,586 --> 01:22:39,887
And that's why I'm here.
1248
01:22:39,889 --> 01:22:43,090
To dig myself out of me.
1249
01:23:00,909 --> 01:23:02,710
- Are you sure
that this isn't too much?
1250
01:23:02,712 --> 01:23:04,945
This dress isn't too much?
- It's a beautiful dress.
1251
01:23:04,947 --> 01:23:08,315
- Okay.
- Look... Eddie!
1252
01:23:08,317 --> 01:23:10,985
- I... I don't know
if you want me here, but uh...
1253
01:23:12,187 --> 01:23:14,321
I decided to come.
1254
01:23:14,323 --> 01:23:15,856
- Why wouldn't I want you here?
1255
01:23:15,858 --> 01:23:18,926
- Well, I, uh, I... I...
1256
01:23:18,928 --> 01:23:21,195
I turned my back on you.
1257
01:23:21,197 --> 01:23:23,263
- Oh, Dad, I...
1258
01:23:23,265 --> 01:23:27,334
I know how hard it is for you
to accept who I am, and...
1259
01:23:27,336 --> 01:23:29,169
I lied for so long,
and then... and then...
1260
01:23:29,171 --> 01:23:31,405
I said those horrible things
and I... I made you angry.
1261
01:23:31,407 --> 01:23:33,574
- No, no, no.
This has nothing to do with it.
1262
01:23:33,576 --> 01:23:35,676
I... I wasn't angry. I...
1263
01:23:37,112 --> 01:23:39,113
I walked away because uh...
1264
01:23:40,915 --> 01:23:42,916
Uh, because I was hurt.
1265
01:23:44,519 --> 01:23:46,053
You said you wanted me
out of your life
1266
01:23:46,055 --> 01:23:47,588
and you'd be relieved
when I was gone.
1267
01:23:47,590 --> 01:23:51,492
You said... you said you, uh...
1268
01:23:51,494 --> 01:23:54,161
you wouldn't miss me.
1269
01:23:54,163 --> 01:23:56,463
Me.
1270
01:23:56,465 --> 01:23:58,599
You wouldn't miss me.
1271
01:24:00,902 --> 01:24:02,636
I'm your dad.
1272
01:24:04,172 --> 01:24:08,776
Nobody has ever loved you more
than me, and nobody ever will.
1273
01:24:08,778 --> 01:24:10,778
How could you not miss me?
1274
01:24:13,815 --> 01:24:15,649
You see...
1275
01:24:15,651 --> 01:24:17,351
when, um...
1276
01:24:17,353 --> 01:24:19,686
when people hurt me, I... I...
1277
01:24:21,222 --> 01:24:23,223
I... I don't talk
about it. I...
1278
01:24:24,826 --> 01:24:26,427
I walk away.
1279
01:24:27,996 --> 01:24:29,797
I always walk away.
1280
01:24:30,899 --> 01:24:32,232
But, uh...
1281
01:24:33,802 --> 01:24:36,136
I can't walk away from you.
1282
01:24:38,239 --> 01:24:41,241
So... if that's okay...
1283
01:24:46,147 --> 01:24:48,849
You're my daughter.
1284
01:24:48,851 --> 01:24:51,852
A-and I would like
to walk you down the aisle.
1285
01:25:57,218 --> 01:25:59,887
- Living in a moment
I would die for.
1286
01:26:01,222 --> 01:26:04,525
These words best describe
every minute of everyday
1287
01:26:04,527 --> 01:26:06,960
of the last five years.
1288
01:26:06,962 --> 01:26:11,098
That's why I'm standing in front
of our family and our friends...
1289
01:26:11,100 --> 01:26:13,767
but most importantly,
in front of you...
1290
01:26:14,969 --> 01:26:17,671
and in the presence of God
1291
01:26:17,673 --> 01:26:21,742
to vow to be
your faithfully committed
1292
01:26:21,744 --> 01:26:24,344
lifetime companion.
1293
01:27:33,782 --> 01:27:36,683
- Do you know what I mean
about the grass, Aaron?
1294
01:27:36,685 --> 01:27:38,151
- Yes, I do.
1295
01:27:39,354 --> 01:27:42,556
- When I move away
and sell that house...
1296
01:27:42,558 --> 01:27:45,792
that grass will die
and I know it will.
1297
01:27:45,794 --> 01:27:48,095
But my grass...
1298
01:27:48,097 --> 01:27:51,732
the grass that is inside
of me will always be green.
1299
01:27:51,734 --> 01:27:55,235
Do you know what I mean?
- I do.
1300
01:27:55,237 --> 01:27:57,938
- Are you a lesbian?
- No.
1301
01:27:57,940 --> 01:27:59,273
- Good.
1302
01:28:00,942 --> 01:28:02,209
That's mine.
1303
01:30:01,396 --> 01:30:03,196
- Okay, everybody. This is it.
1304
01:30:03,198 --> 01:30:05,766
It's time for the conga line.
1305
01:30:05,768 --> 01:30:08,802
- Oh, my God.
I love the conga line.