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We spend a lot of time worrying
about career, money,

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what people will think of us,
and if we'll ever find love.

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After all, isn't that
what life is all about?

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Being in love?

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If it's meant to be, two
people will find each other.

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Turning 50 makes a guy think...

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Did I pick the right career?

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Did I pick the right person?

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Did I settle?

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Did I force my life to go the way
I think it should have gone?

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What will I do with the rest of my life?

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I only have about 35 years left.

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<i>I won't be a minute.</i>

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<i>I went to get the papers.</i>

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<i>I turned the latch off!</i>

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<i>I forgot to turn it on again...
He's out there... he was coming in!</i>

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You look like you've had better days.

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Is it because you're turning 50?

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I don't know.
I don't know what's wrong with me.

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I feel disconnected.

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Oh my god, dude, what happened to my life?

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How did I get to be 50?

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There's something about those two numbers.

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I was okay at 49.

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I didn't feel anything, but just by
those two numbers changing to 50...

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It's freaking me out.

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It's just a number.

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That's what you say... until it hits you.

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"He's going through that mid-life crisis"

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I never knew what it meant.

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I never thought it would be
something I would have to deal with.

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I didn't think I'd live this long.

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What exactly is a mid-life crisis, anyway?

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From what I can tell, It's when you hit
that state of life where you question...

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if you've achieved your goals,
rate your life on how happy you are,

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if you did what you set out
to do by a certain age...

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I think I'm going to throw up.

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I don't guess you can understand,
you're not there yet.

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Look, man.
You take life way too seriously.

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You just got to go along for the ride.

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I wish I could be like that.

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I came from a poor family.
I always wanted to have more...

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for my life.

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But you seem like you have
everything you could need.

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You have a career... and Greg.

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There's a lot you don't
know about me and Greg.

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Yeah, I know Greg is a complete dickhead.

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I just think you can do better.

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Are we still having your birthday party?

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I guess. I don't care.

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Can I bring my cousin, from Indiana?

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Indiana? Yeah, I really think
you guys will hit it off.

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Indiana, huh? Farm boy, no doubt.

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Yeah. He's a super cool guy,

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he's in between jobs right now and
he wanted to come to town for a visit.

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Sure, bring him along.

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What's this?

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The small town where I grew up.

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My great grandma...

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would take me and my brother every
day in the summer to Foster's Freeze.

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She'd call it 'Foyster's Freeze'.

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Between my Mom and my Grandparents,
we had a whole lot of love.

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My Dad didn't seem too
interested in me and my brother.

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From what Mom says, he never wanted kids.

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I just don't understand what happened.

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I was just 23! Look!

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So, are we going to see
your parents this summer?

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You keep talking about it,
but it never happens.

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"Never Happens"? What
do you mean it never happens?

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Forget it.

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I know your parents would like me.
I'm sure they would, babe.

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It's just...

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It's complicated.

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Sure it is, Greg.

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Everything is complicated, isn't it?

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That's what people say
when, they need an excuse.

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When they can't find one.

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C'mon, Babe. They're going to meet you.
I want them to meet you.

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Sometime... when it's right.

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It'll never be right.

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Who's this?

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Me.

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That one's from my eighth birthday party.

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My Dad thought it would be a great idea
to have a pinata. I was blindfolded.

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I finally broke the pinata, a kid shoved
me out of the way to get the candy.

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I cried, and my Dad scolded me.

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To this day, I still do not
understand the rules to pinata.

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Why the birthday kid is
blind when the candy falls.

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Yeah, life's real tough
when you're 8 years old.

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Who's this little Chubbie-Wubbie?

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This poor kid looks like
he had too many tacos.

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That's me, Greg.

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I was overweight until I was 16.

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Yep, it's an uphill
battle, the older we get.

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Weight. Wrinkles.

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It's only going to get harder
now that you're turning 50.

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Hey, we're doing Saturday alone
tomorrow, right? No business.

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Yeah yeah yeah babe, just pick
out some romantic movies.

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You know, I'll make breakfast for us
when I get back from the gym and...

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we'll have our alone day together.

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Gym?

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On your day off?

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Well, yeah, I mean I'll get back early.
Go early.

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You won't even be here to
sleep in with me. Great.

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Hey, I'll be back in time for breakfast.

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No, it won't be early Greg.
It'll be 12 or 1.

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You know, it's always the same.

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Go to the gym, talk to
your friends, work out,

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take some business calls,
stop by the office

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and then you'll finally
make it back here.

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You know, look at me.

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I'm going to be a fatty if I keep eating the
food and meals that you keep making for me.

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Alright, maybe this is okay for
you, but it's not okay for me.

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That's what the gym is for Greg,
to burn off the calories.

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You know, I do 2 days at
the gym, and 2 days walking.

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I'm not going to make myself
a complete lunatic like you.

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Look, babe. You don't have to get upset
over this, I was just stating a fact.

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Then you won't be needing
this cake I made for you.

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Come on, listen, I didn't
mean to make you feel bad. OK?

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It's beautiful, alright?

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That's exactly what I'm talking about.
It's...

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We have cake or pie once a week, Greg.

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Once a week.

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Don't you think that...

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Things are starting to come
together on this deal.

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That's good, Greg. Really great.

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How are things in the, uh...

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Indie movie business.

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Kinda slow. The economy.

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I had an hour long call
with my distributor today.

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Oh yeah? How did that go?

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It didn't go like I hoped it would.

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Hows that?

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DVD is dying. Everything is going
streaming, and people aren't buying.

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They said they aren't sure
they can take my next film.

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They told me, in so many words,
that they aren't interested.

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They suggested that I go
with another distributor.

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That could be good?

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There are just some business
things I have to work through

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if I'm going to get this
next movie made.

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Maybe it's time for you to start
doing something that could...

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bring you some real money.

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I... don't understand.

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I've been doing this for 12 years,
I bring in some real money.

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I just think it's time to
stop playing Movie Guy, and

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maybe get serious about your life.

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Before you get too old.

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Greg, I love movies. I got into this
business because I want to entertain people.

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There are just some business
things I have to work through.

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Did I ever tell you how I
got into this business?

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I was 15 and some friends of mine...

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Yeah, I know. You guys went and
saw Jaws, I know. You've told me.

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Do you love me?

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Do I love you?

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What kind of question is that?

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Babe, I just think it's time that you...

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you know, you do something.

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Something you can enjoy
the rest of your life.

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- You mean something you approve of?
- Look, I don't have to approve of anything.

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You've had your fun, David, you've
made your little film projects.

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Hey, where did it get you?

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Look at you.

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12 years older and you're still
wishing you could be the next Spielberg.

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Babe. There's only one Spielberg.

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00:13:03,731 --> 00:13:07,558
For your information, Greg, I'm completely
aware that there is only one Spielberg.

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You know, people aspire to be
great film makers with big ideas.

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But I've always been completely
realistic about my career.

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All I ever wanted was
to make decent films.

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I don't have to be Spielberg,
I don't want to be Spielberg.

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But we see a film like
Jaws and say "Hey",

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that's what I want to do.
Make movies!".

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But it's a different world,
Greg, things have changed.

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It's a different business... you have
no idea how this business operates.

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Now I'm fairly sure you
have no idea who I am.

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Look at me.

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I went to college for 4 years.

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I have a degree.

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Because my parents kept pushing me,

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to do something... you know,
to want something better.

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00:14:06,302 --> 00:14:08,604
So I finally got through it.
I did it.

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I made something of myself.

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I just wish...

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00:14:16,712 --> 00:14:20,590
You wish I that I'd made
something of my life.

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That I had taken a different road?

185
00:14:26,525 --> 00:14:27,903
That I'd finally see the light?

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So you could be proud of me, show
me off to your parents. Right?

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00:14:32,623 --> 00:14:33,908
You're not proud of me.

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00:14:36,736 --> 00:14:39,877
I know you wish that you didn't
have to be embarrassed by me

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00:14:39,878 --> 00:14:43,386
in front of your stuck up
Ivy League friends.

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00:14:51,995 --> 00:14:54,101
So I'll ask you again.

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00:14:55,957 --> 00:14:57,619
Greg, do you love me?

192
00:15:00,804 --> 00:15:03,222
I'm sorry I hurt your feelings.

193
00:15:04,509 --> 00:15:06,657
It wasn't my intentions.

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00:15:06,745 --> 00:15:08,319
What were your intentions?

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00:15:15,629 --> 00:15:17,761
I guess I have my answer.

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00:15:17,940 --> 00:15:19,787
Your answer. What does that
mean you have your answer?

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- If you love me.
- Babe, you know I love you.

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00:15:27,684 --> 00:15:30,041
Look, I have this
business trip coming up.

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Can we just... Can we just talk
about this when I get back, please?

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Yeah.

201
00:15:48,542 --> 00:15:50,805
Maybe we should break up
for awhile, you know?

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Just until you figure out
whatever it is that you want.

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I'm here for you,

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00:16:02,699 --> 00:16:04,819
if you want to talk but...

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00:16:06,020 --> 00:16:08,631
you need a break from me.

206
00:16:10,694 --> 00:16:12,175
You know?

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00:16:13,876 --> 00:16:16,763
We just...
We have so many differences.

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00:16:24,568 --> 00:16:27,528
You could use some time to do some soul
searching.

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00:16:34,704 --> 00:16:37,500
We could talk about it
more when I get back.

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00:16:37,681 --> 00:16:38,630
Later.

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00:16:46,316 --> 00:16:49,987
I'm going to hit the sheets.

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00:16:52,489 --> 00:16:57,288
I mean, I can stay with Jack and Hannah for
a few weeks until we get us worked out.

213
00:16:58,914 --> 00:17:00,567
They have an extra bedroom.

214
00:18:05,408 --> 00:18:09,350
Okay, you look like a sad puppy today.

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00:18:09,751 --> 00:18:11,778
Are you going to tell me
what's going on?

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00:18:12,473 --> 00:18:14,021
Did something happen between you and Greg?

217
00:18:17,812 --> 00:18:22,785
We broke up. I guess.
I don't know.

218
00:18:23,118 --> 00:18:23,836
What?

219
00:18:25,757 --> 00:18:28,171
He left on a business trip. He...

220
00:18:28,872 --> 00:18:32,593
wants me to work on my
life's plan while he's away.

221
00:18:35,707 --> 00:18:38,632
- Go ahead. Say it.
- What?

222
00:18:44,093 --> 00:18:48,258
Finally! I mean... Oh...
God... what happened?

223
00:18:48,284 --> 00:18:50,674
Didn't he like his dinner.

224
00:18:51,937 --> 00:18:54,862
I don't know. I'll figure this
all out and let you know.

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00:18:55,441 --> 00:18:58,688
I'm sorry. I know this
must be hard for you

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00:18:58,689 --> 00:19:02,602
and I'm your best friend and
I should be supportive, but...

227
00:19:03,036 --> 00:19:05,852
it's no secret that I did not like Greg.

228
00:19:06,181 --> 00:19:09,480
I don't know what you saw in him.
He is a cold bastard.

229
00:19:09,802 --> 00:19:15,134
And I'm sorry if that doesn't make you
feel better, but it makes me feel better.

230
00:19:16,794 --> 00:19:19,757
Come on, you're such
a genuinely nice guy

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00:19:19,758 --> 00:19:21,412
and I hate seeing you
so upset all the time.

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00:19:21,474 --> 00:19:23,891
This is a good thing! You'll see!

233
00:19:23,892 --> 00:19:27,783
And my cousin is still coming to visit and
he's gonna be staying with me for a while.

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00:19:27,816 --> 00:19:29,075
And I want you to meet him.

235
00:19:30,652 --> 00:19:33,167
What? Come on, he's
a loner, you're a loner.

236
00:19:33,193 --> 00:19:34,728
You guys would be great friends.

237
00:19:36,034 --> 00:19:37,996
I just broke up and you've
already got me dating?

238
00:19:38,455 --> 00:19:44,192
No, no not dating. He's just
a cool guy, and frankly...

239
00:19:44,227 --> 00:19:46,998
I don't really even...
know if he's into guys.

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00:19:48,258 --> 00:19:50,181
Uh, maybe.

241
00:19:52,305 --> 00:19:54,345
He's shy, and I think people
take advantage of him.

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00:19:55,767 --> 00:19:59,990
I want to see him with someone great.
He means a lotto me. OK?

243
00:20:01,275 --> 00:20:03,198
Listen, I'll have him message you.

244
00:20:04,947 --> 00:20:06,987
You know, I think you settled
when it came to Greg.

245
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,123
I didn't settle.

246
00:20:13,290 --> 00:20:15,214
I don't think I did.

247
00:20:18,004 --> 00:20:19,928
I thought I was in love with him.

248
00:20:22,843 --> 00:20:26,347
James, I'm almost 50. I'm supposed
to be happy and in love. You know?

249
00:20:28,434 --> 00:20:30,641
I see this in a lot of people, you know?

250
00:20:30,642 --> 00:20:34,621
People would rather be
sort of okay

251
00:20:34,622 --> 00:20:37,293
and they'll do whatever it
takes just to not to be alone.

252
00:20:37,296 --> 00:20:38,777
I mean, do you really want that?

253
00:20:38,850 --> 00:20:44,311
Do you want to be sort of in love and sort
of not in love and completely unfulfilled?

254
00:20:47,808 --> 00:20:51,890
You know, he always just wanted to be
romantic when it was on his terms.

255
00:20:51,906 --> 00:20:54,276
I, frankly would rather
be single and liberated

256
00:20:54,277 --> 00:20:56,929
than unhappy and disconnected
for the rest of my life.

257
00:20:57,105 --> 00:21:00,228
There. I said it, mister.

258
00:21:00,484 --> 00:21:05,235
I guess I never expected much because
I didn't want to let myself down.

259
00:21:13,324 --> 00:21:15,246
I don't know what to do.

260
00:21:15,618 --> 00:21:17,543
Things are just getting to me.

261
00:21:18,206 --> 00:21:20,128
You know what?

262
00:21:21,586 --> 00:21:23,507
See this, James?
Do you know what this is?

263
00:21:25,422 --> 00:21:27,347
It's a state-issued food stamp.

264
00:21:28,134 --> 00:21:31,731
My mom used to have to use these to feed
me and my brother when we were kids.

265
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,424
That's nothing to be embarrassed about.

266
00:21:35,496 --> 00:21:37,932
That's great James.
The point is, is that I hate this.

267
00:21:37,933 --> 00:21:39,807
But I carry it with me to remind me

268
00:21:39,808 --> 00:21:43,066
to work hard in my life and
never let this happen to me.

269
00:21:43,366 --> 00:21:47,332
It mocks me and reminds me that if
I use this I have failed as a man.

270
00:21:47,992 --> 00:21:50,371
I don't know what the answers
are, can you tell me?

271
00:21:50,663 --> 00:21:55,420
I'm going to make damn sure I
don't end up on food stamps.

272
00:21:57,422 --> 00:21:59,145
I'm almost 50 years old.

273
00:21:59,174 --> 00:22:01,561
I'm supposed to be financially secure.

274
00:22:01,643 --> 00:22:03,807
I'm supposed to have peace,
I'm supposed to have a husband,

275
00:22:03,808 --> 00:22:06,484
and a dog and be enjoying
a Doris Day Life!

276
00:22:12,108 --> 00:22:14,031
I don't know.

277
00:22:19,116 --> 00:22:22,336
I guess I'll get another job to
help out until things get better.

278
00:22:23,329 --> 00:22:26,709
Oh, and I got another call back
from another distributor today.

279
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,609
They said they will take my next movie

280
00:22:28,610 --> 00:22:31,943
if I'll do a 50/50 deal plus
pay all of the marketing costs.

281
00:22:32,337 --> 00:22:34,208
This business is a trap!

282
00:22:34,243 --> 00:22:35,342
Well did you tell them no?

283
00:22:35,343 --> 00:22:39,203
Of course! It won't even cover
the movie's costs... it's ridiculous!

284
00:22:40,217 --> 00:22:43,831
I just want my camera crane shot
over the Kansas wheat fields.

285
00:22:45,691 --> 00:22:48,286
Okay, come on.
You need a drink.

286
00:22:48,703 --> 00:22:50,362
I need a drink. Great.

287
00:22:50,363 --> 00:22:54,176
So I'm going to be a drunk just
like all the other writers and directors.

288
00:22:55,202 --> 00:22:59,505
Well, at least you will be part of
a crowd that's lonely at the top.

289
00:23:00,167 --> 00:23:02,592
Come one, things'll be OK David.

290
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,795
You know, life has it's own plan, I guess.

291
00:23:06,896 --> 00:23:10,456
And Greg isn't worth
giving up hope for, okay.

292
00:23:11,016 --> 00:23:15,443
Maybe life has a new future mapped out
for you, something completely different.

293
00:23:15,812 --> 00:23:18,566
A new husband, maybe?

294
00:23:18,984 --> 00:23:23,114
All my friends used to try to get
me to go out to bars and clubs.

295
00:23:23,489 --> 00:23:25,912
You'll never find anyone
if you stay at home.

296
00:23:26,242 --> 00:23:31,341
I used to think I would be single all
my life, and I was OK with that.

297
00:23:35,629 --> 00:23:37,553
Then I met Greg.

298
00:23:39,176 --> 00:23:41,099
I thought he was the one.

299
00:23:46,226 --> 00:23:51,128
You know, I jused to joke that I was
holding out for my Indiana farmboy?

300
00:23:53,277 --> 00:23:58,034
Hey, you know, I'm from Indiana.
There are some really good people there.

301
00:24:01,788 --> 00:24:05,794
Oh, GOD no way. No way! Haha

302
00:24:06,793 --> 00:24:10,299
I reckon the Gods have
something else in mind for us.

303
00:24:10,591 --> 00:24:14,061
Come on. Let's go make some
margaritas and get smashed!

304
00:24:14,346 --> 00:24:17,897
Things'll be OK David.
I promise.

305
00:26:47,999 --> 00:26:49,922
Hi, uh... Shane!

306
00:26:50,208 --> 00:26:52,087
Hi, David, yes hi. Hello.

307
00:26:55,257 --> 00:26:57,944
It's nice to meet you, in person.
Yeah, you too.

308
00:26:57,970 --> 00:26:59,503
Welcome. Sorry, come on In.

309
00:27:03,142 --> 00:27:05,897
Can I get you a drink or something?
I've got water/coke/beer...

310
00:27:07,647 --> 00:27:09,571
I'll have a beer. Thanks.
Have a seat.

311
00:27:17,118 --> 00:27:22,250
So, you said on Facebook that you
were really into video games?

312
00:27:24,085 --> 00:27:26,008
Yeah. Yeah, I play them all the time.

313
00:27:32,302 --> 00:27:33,396
Sorry.

314
00:27:34,891 --> 00:27:36,813
So, you like horror movies.

315
00:27:37,477 --> 00:27:40,903
Yeah, mostly 40's and 50's sci-fi horror.

316
00:27:41,565 --> 00:27:43,728
Oh, I love those. I'm a big
fan of 70's horror movies.

317
00:27:44,277 --> 00:27:46,199
Race with the Devil, Piranha...

318
00:27:46,697 --> 00:27:49,416
<i>Oh my god, you are an awesome person, Hove
those memes.</i>

319
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,309
You know, talking to you on facebook,

320
00:27:53,310 --> 00:27:58,123
I couldn't believe the number of
interests that you and I had in common.

321
00:27:58,420 --> 00:28:00,145
Yup, it's pretty cool.

322
00:28:00,233 --> 00:28:02,555
I'm a huge Peter Cushing fan.

323
00:28:02,583 --> 00:28:03,410
Mm.

324
00:28:03,843 --> 00:28:06,748
Oh, I see.
You don't know who he is.

325
00:28:06,783 --> 00:28:08,897
I'm embarrassed.
I should know who that is.

326
00:28:09,185 --> 00:28:10,704
It's Ok, you are younger than me by...

327
00:28:10,811 --> 00:28:12,734
I guess I'm more familiar with 80's movies.

328
00:28:13,356 --> 00:28:17,954
I used to sleep in the living
room, so I'd watch a lot of TV.

329
00:28:18,404 --> 00:28:20,329
Oh yeah?

330
00:28:21,617 --> 00:28:26,589
Yeah, my family was pretty poor, so
we always lived in small places.

331
00:28:27,791 --> 00:28:29,715
My parents and sisters
would get the bedrooms.

332
00:28:30,461 --> 00:28:33,422
I never thought much about it. I guess
I always thought it was pretty cool.

333
00:28:33,716 --> 00:28:36,186
I guess I could watch movies anytime.

334
00:28:38,179 --> 00:28:40,101
I read a lot too. I read a lot.

335
00:28:42,936 --> 00:28:44,858
Are you close with your family now?

336
00:28:45,396 --> 00:28:46,525
Yeah, yeah I am.

337
00:28:46,526 --> 00:28:50,728
My parents gave me and my sisters a lot
of love. I had a pretty good upbringing.

338
00:28:52,764 --> 00:28:55,289
I had a... similar youth.

339
00:28:55,577 --> 00:28:57,203
We moved a lot as kids.

340
00:28:57,537 --> 00:29:01,881
My dad decided he wanted to
be a pentecostal preacher.

341
00:29:01,907 --> 00:29:05,540
We lived in a lot of
towns, and a few states.

342
00:29:05,963 --> 00:29:11,893
So I'd stay up late at night
and watch Creature Feature.

343
00:29:12,180 --> 00:29:14,105
They showed a lot of horror movies.
I was hooked.

344
00:29:15,184 --> 00:29:17,108
Eh, I'm rambling.

345
00:29:17,562 --> 00:29:19,634
I'm... I I, I like hearing you talk.

346
00:29:19,635 --> 00:29:22,606
I just don't know like all there is
to know about horror movies.

347
00:29:22,641 --> 00:29:25,725
The rest of my time is spent
playing retro videogames.

348
00:29:26,032 --> 00:29:27,955
Oh, retro games.

349
00:29:29,452 --> 00:29:32,002
Yeah, I'm a big fan of 70's and 80's games.

350
00:29:32,457 --> 00:29:34,379
I have, hundreds of them.

351
00:29:36,128 --> 00:29:41,181
My folks couldn't afford the cartridges.
I'd get them one or two a year.

352
00:29:41,677 --> 00:29:43,599
Birthday, Christmas...

353
00:29:45,180 --> 00:29:48,089
I'm sorry, I don't know what to say.

354
00:29:48,090 --> 00:29:52,754
I don't do well with a lot of people.
I'm very shy, I get nervous...

355
00:29:52,841 --> 00:29:54,925
Oh no, you're doing fine.
You're doing fine.

356
00:29:56,277 --> 00:29:58,903
Yeah, I'm not the most social guy myself.

357
00:29:58,904 --> 00:30:02,270
I've had to be, but I don't like it much.

358
00:30:02,786 --> 00:30:05,660
Domestic type. Be in your
own safe environment,

359
00:30:05,686 --> 00:30:07,613
then you don't have
to talk to people.

360
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,883
Exactly. You get it.

361
00:30:13,384 --> 00:30:15,307
I feel bad I've never heard of you.

362
00:30:15,844 --> 00:30:17,313
You mean my movies?

363
00:30:17,806 --> 00:30:19,728
Yeah.
I looked you up, and then I knew.

364
00:30:20,349 --> 00:30:22,700
Don't feel bad. How would
you know about me?

365
00:30:22,726 --> 00:30:24,551
I'm just a small
indie film maker.

366
00:30:24,981 --> 00:30:30,080
I did make one thriller. It did
well at first. Then tanked.

367
00:30:31,239 --> 00:30:36,996
It was supposed to be a silly,
tounge-in-cheek ghost story.

368
00:30:37,579 --> 00:30:40,661
I guess everyone wants everything perfect.
Sex, Gore... "More sex! More Gore!"

369
00:30:41,042 --> 00:30:42,545
It's hard to figure out.

370
00:30:44,631 --> 00:30:46,711
A lot of my fans want me to make more
romance/dramas.

371
00:30:49,261 --> 00:30:51,248
Since most of them are
about small-town life,

372
00:30:51,274 --> 00:30:53,259
I guess I'd like to live
most of them myself.

373
00:30:53,683 --> 00:30:55,607
You should try the midwest!
Indiana? Eh?

374
00:30:58,147 --> 00:31:00,072
Heh, sorry, that was stupid.

375
00:31:04,030 --> 00:31:06,352
I'd like to see your movies.
Maybe on our next movie night?

376
00:31:08,202 --> 00:31:10,964
How about you watch them alone and
then you can judge them in privacy.

377
00:31:11,122 --> 00:31:11,824
Ha Ha.

378
00:31:13,016 --> 00:31:16,952
Hey, do you got some time to stay?
For awhile?

379
00:31:16,987 --> 00:31:19,873
I've got some frozen pizza...

380
00:31:20,134 --> 00:31:21,216
Could put on some movies...

381
00:31:21,594 --> 00:31:25,115
Uh, yeah. I don't have
anything else to do today.

382
00:31:25,141 --> 00:31:26,548
Pizza sounds great.

383
00:31:26,850 --> 00:31:31,653
Yeah? You pick out the movies and
I'll get the pizza in the oven.

384
00:31:36,238 --> 00:31:39,709
So you say you like older videogames.

385
00:31:41,202 --> 00:31:43,127
Yeah, I have been doing
so since I was little.

386
00:31:45,750 --> 00:31:49,800
I'm not very coordinated.
I get... stressed with videogames.

387
00:31:50,171 --> 00:31:51,299
Wanna play one?

388
00:31:52,091 --> 00:31:54,015
You mean a videogame?
Right now?

389
00:31:54,386 --> 00:31:56,309
Yeah, right now, don't look so terrified.

390
00:31:57,389 --> 00:31:59,313
Yeah. Here.

391
00:31:59,685 --> 00:32:04,362
I don't know about this. It's all right. No
one is watching and I won't make fun of you.

392
00:32:05,651 --> 00:32:07,699
We'll start with something easy.
Ok, what do I do?

393
00:32:08,694 --> 00:32:10,619
So... left.

394
00:32:11,199 --> 00:32:12,667
Just start going forward.

395
00:32:12,993 --> 00:32:14,917
Go forward. It's this one. Oh.

396
00:32:15,454 --> 00:32:17,376
Back... wait, no wait..
Ohhhh...

397
00:32:18,292 --> 00:32:20,216
Up?
No, gotta start over. That's alright.

398
00:32:21,004 --> 00:32:21,969
Ok. Take it.

399
00:32:22,796 --> 00:32:26,301
And this pushes the.. No no, go
forward with that, and this steers.

400
00:32:27,093 --> 00:32:27,811
Ok.

401
00:32:30,514 --> 00:32:32,439
<i>Good, Good. You have 2 lives.</i>

402
00:32:33,185 --> 00:32:35,107
No no, come back...
No... you do it.

403
00:32:35,605 --> 00:32:37,530
All right, watch. You
push forward, I'll steer.

404
00:32:38,942 --> 00:32:40,865
Ok, push... Ok.. that's not going to work.

405
00:32:41,363 --> 00:32:43,284
Oh, no, you fire! Please. Ok.

406
00:32:43,780 --> 00:32:45,706
Push. Ready? Go right.

407
00:32:45,993 --> 00:32:47,119
Ok, now stop.

408
00:32:47,620 --> 00:32:49,543
Jump up. See? Yeah.

409
00:32:50,082 --> 00:32:51,082
Wait. No. Wait...

410
00:33:07,603 --> 00:33:09,527
Great cake, David!
Happy birthday!

411
00:33:09,856 --> 00:33:11,779
Where's the mister today?

412
00:33:12,567 --> 00:33:16,493
Mmm. He's gone. On a business trip. And
from David's life. Isn't that right, David?

413
00:33:17,408 --> 00:33:19,332
What? Thanks, James.

414
00:33:19,811 --> 00:33:25,144
We're just celebrating the old days gone
of David being jerked around by Greg,

415
00:33:25,145 --> 00:33:28,195
and celebrating his new
life full of happiness.

416
00:33:28,455 --> 00:33:30,679
How come I didn't hear
about it before now?

417
00:33:31,085 --> 00:33:35,092
Sorry Ace, I'm not sure if it's final.

418
00:33:35,206 --> 00:33:38,230
Oh, but it is final, isn't it David?

419
00:33:38,977 --> 00:33:42,157
So, what happened?
How did this come to be?

420
00:33:42,232 --> 00:33:45,486
Oh, yes David.
Please tell us how this all came to be.

421
00:33:46,820 --> 00:33:48,743
So, how's the cake?

422
00:33:52,244 --> 00:33:57,377
So, how are you doing with it, David?
Turning the big 50?

423
00:33:57,460 --> 00:34:02,771
Scared? A little frantic? Having
panic attacks every 8 hours?

424
00:34:02,842 --> 00:34:08,099
Yes, it's true. I'm now 50.

425
00:34:08,950 --> 00:34:11,261
How's that working out for you?

426
00:34:15,297 --> 00:34:17,822
Ok, you want to know how I'm handling it?

427
00:34:18,277 --> 00:34:19,448
Well...

428
00:34:20,488 --> 00:34:23,913
It seems life doesn't go according to plan.
Does it Ace?

429
00:34:24,743 --> 00:34:25,746
No.

430
00:34:26,371 --> 00:34:29,260
By the time I was 14, I knew
I wanted to make movies.

431
00:34:29,977 --> 00:34:33,701
By the time I was 16,
my parents were divorced,

432
00:34:33,702 --> 00:34:37,267
and I had to put my dreams aside.

433
00:34:38,402 --> 00:34:41,973
I went to work at other jobs,
to help my mom and brother.

434
00:34:42,008 --> 00:34:45,549
My dad had left us in
his mid-life crisis, and

435
00:34:45,550 --> 00:34:47,950
he didn't give my mom
one penny to support us.

436
00:34:47,956 --> 00:34:53,159
<i>So, she had to work 3 jobs
to raise 2 teenage boys.</i>

437
00:34:54,281 --> 00:34:56,783
If not for my grandparents
helping us, well...

438
00:34:58,093 --> 00:35:01,735
So, by 18, I had...

439
00:35:02,336 --> 00:35:04,026
no money for film school.

440
00:35:04,061 --> 00:35:07,660
I wasn't even sure, by then, if
that's what I even wanted to do.

441
00:35:10,092 --> 00:35:12,016
But, I knew one thing.

442
00:35:13,563 --> 00:35:15,561
By age 20...

443
00:35:17,862 --> 00:35:21,768
that someday I would meet a great guy.

444
00:35:23,317 --> 00:35:25,241
Have a wonderful husband.

445
00:35:25,736 --> 00:35:27,660
Three dogs.

446
00:35:29,159 --> 00:35:33,208
A country house, complete with a
Doris Day pool and garden.

447
00:35:34,497 --> 00:35:38,220
That's what I was sure would happen.
At least, I hoped it would, anyway.

448
00:35:41,123 --> 00:35:45,738
So I've lived in...
four different states.

449
00:35:45,739 --> 00:35:49,335
Eighteen different houses in
twelve different towns and...

450
00:35:49,554 --> 00:35:53,731
Still, I've managed to keep my
vision clear the whole time.

451
00:35:54,148 --> 00:35:59,872
Doing films, striving for that big break.
Having that house in the country and...

452
00:36:01,031 --> 00:36:02,955
now I'm 50.

453
00:36:07,497 --> 00:36:09,421
I live in a condo.

454
00:36:09,710 --> 00:36:11,588
That Greg owns.

455
00:36:15,551 --> 00:36:17,473
And he doesn't seem to love me.

456
00:36:22,184 --> 00:36:24,345
Somehow, I don't think my
life plan is going to happen.

457
00:36:30,194 --> 00:36:35,827
Is that about right?
Did I cover everything? James?

458
00:36:37,953 --> 00:36:39,500
Um...

459
00:36:42,084 --> 00:36:44,007
Anyone want more cake?

460
00:36:46,714 --> 00:36:50,562
I guess that's what you
call a mid-life crisis.

461
00:36:52,972 --> 00:36:58,070
You know, I always wondered
what I had to look forward to.

462
00:36:58,353 --> 00:37:00,405
I never thought I'd
get older, you know?

463
00:37:00,431 --> 00:37:02,931
Especially in my early
twenties, I mean, who did?

464
00:37:03,194 --> 00:37:06,413
I remember people telling me
that when I turned 25, that...

465
00:37:06,414 --> 00:37:09,940
the years would go by so... fast.

466
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,545
That was 14 years ago.

467
00:37:17,044 --> 00:37:18,967
God. I'm going to get older.

468
00:37:19,422 --> 00:37:21,346
There's no way out of it.

469
00:37:21,842 --> 00:37:25,678
I just...
You know in 5 years from now

470
00:37:25,679 --> 00:37:28,972
I'm going to be in
the middle of my life.

471
00:37:31,980 --> 00:37:34,485
I don't know how I'm going to handle that.

472
00:37:36,235 --> 00:37:38,159
Oh god, now I'm depressed.

473
00:37:40,072 --> 00:37:44,776
You need some frosting.
Here, have some more cake.

474
00:37:44,814 --> 00:37:47,552
You know what?
If I'm going to get old and die,

475
00:37:47,553 --> 00:37:50,979
why does it matter how much money
I make or how many calories I eat?

476
00:37:51,797 --> 00:37:53,720
Seconds.

477
00:37:56,019 --> 00:37:58,141
Well, I keep going.
I keep trying.

478
00:37:58,723 --> 00:38:01,146
I keep thinking.

479
00:38:02,352 --> 00:38:04,712
You know? Maybe it is time I do
something else with my life.

480
00:38:05,772 --> 00:38:09,368
I've got about 35 years left.
If my health holds out.

481
00:38:09,861 --> 00:38:12,808
You know, I never thought
I'd live to hear the words:

482
00:38:12,892 --> 00:38:15,823
"You really should get a
colon exam at your age".

483
00:38:21,044 --> 00:38:25,515
I never thought I'd that I'd hear you
saying that you were worrying about 50.

484
00:38:26,924 --> 00:38:28,847
That has kind of taken me aback.

485
00:38:29,636 --> 00:38:31,559
I don't understand.

486
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,523
Life is phases we go through.

487
00:38:36,771 --> 00:38:38,693
50 is a phase.

488
00:38:40,442 --> 00:38:43,743
This is the great time
of life, in your 50's.

489
00:38:44,030 --> 00:38:46,499
Because you have this background.

490
00:38:46,909 --> 00:38:48,832
Half a century of background.

491
00:38:49,286 --> 00:38:53,759
Now you can take what you learned
and put it into real use.

492
00:38:54,126 --> 00:38:56,048
We're talking about your career.

493
00:38:56,337 --> 00:38:58,298
This should be the highlight
of your career time.

494
00:38:58,590 --> 00:38:59,556
It should be.

495
00:38:59,965 --> 00:39:04,313
And I know it probably will be
if you got your act together.

496
00:39:05,932 --> 00:39:07,186
50 is irrelevant.

497
00:39:07,768 --> 00:39:09,691
78 is irrelevant.

498
00:39:10,814 --> 00:39:12,191
30 is irrelevant.

499
00:39:12,523 --> 00:39:13,777
And 40 is irrelevant.

500
00:39:14,067 --> 00:39:15,115
That's all.

501
00:39:15,779 --> 00:39:18,406
Just stages.
In our life, that's all.

502
00:39:18,865 --> 00:39:23,497
Oh god, you guys get me going
on stuff like this. Cramp.

503
00:39:24,271 --> 00:39:25,860
What am I going to do with you?

504
00:39:25,961 --> 00:39:28,459
I'm going to hit you with my
purse, that's what I want to do.

505
00:39:31,339 --> 00:39:33,262
But I love you, you know that.

506
00:39:33,593 --> 00:39:37,722
And I'm so glad you chose
me to be your friend.

507
00:39:38,181 --> 00:39:40,310
It's the best thing in the world.

508
00:39:41,561 --> 00:39:44,611
Well, I'm never getting old.

509
00:39:46,693 --> 00:39:48,616
Sorry, I don't really do jokes.

510
00:39:51,907 --> 00:39:53,501
I don't know.

511
00:39:56,329 --> 00:39:59,675
To be honest, I never really
minded getting older.

512
00:40:00,418 --> 00:40:04,389
I made peace with the very simple
truth that one day I'll die.

513
00:40:04,923 --> 00:40:06,847
No real way of changing that.

514
00:40:07,260 --> 00:40:10,265
You know, Ace, like you said.
I'm in my... uh...

515
00:40:10,889 --> 00:40:12,814
I'm in my 30's.

516
00:40:13,225 --> 00:40:15,346
I'm in my 30's phase.
I'm right in the middle of that.

517
00:40:16,104 --> 00:40:18,028
It's been good so far.

518
00:40:21,194 --> 00:40:23,476
I'm pretty lucky in that I
have a pretty teriffic family.

519
00:40:23,948 --> 00:40:26,190
I know that no matter what,
I'm going to always be happy-

520
00:40:26,409 --> 00:40:28,879
Of which one member is sitting
right in front of me.

521
00:40:29,246 --> 00:40:32,044
I have as good as a cousin
as I could ever hope for.

522
00:40:32,543 --> 00:40:34,340
Yeah.
But... I don't know... I mean...

523
00:40:34,670 --> 00:40:38,766
I guess if worse comes to worse, I
could just marry a videogame.

524
00:40:39,177 --> 00:40:43,056
That's pretty much the
definition of my happiness.

525
00:40:49,522 --> 00:40:51,446
Who knows, David.

526
00:40:51,732 --> 00:40:54,453
Maybe there's a greater
purpose in your life.

527
00:40:54,736 --> 00:40:57,365
Maybe you just don't know it yet.

528
00:40:57,697 --> 00:40:59,828
And it's right in front of you.

529
00:41:10,839 --> 00:41:12,764
David!

530
00:41:15,930 --> 00:41:17,183
David?

531
00:41:21,645 --> 00:41:23,569
Happy Birthday!

532
00:41:28,863 --> 00:41:30,205
Hey... uh...

533
00:41:35,923 --> 00:41:37,848
I...
I didn't know if I should come by.

534
00:41:44,438 --> 00:41:46,362
It's your house.

535
00:41:47,232 --> 00:41:48,326
Yeah.

536
00:41:50,613 --> 00:41:54,339
Yeah, it's just... I want you to stay here.

537
00:41:56,999 --> 00:41:58,923
Until... uh...

538
00:41:59,795 --> 00:42:01,719
Us.

539
00:42:05,096 --> 00:42:07,020
If there's a future.

540
00:42:09,268 --> 00:42:11,194
Yeah.

541
00:42:16,907 --> 00:42:18,832
So, uh...

542
00:42:21,456 --> 00:42:23,379
How are things?

543
00:42:25,212 --> 00:42:27,137
Alright. Yeah?

544
00:42:27,925 --> 00:42:29,427
I guess.

545
00:42:33,517 --> 00:42:35,442
I've been doing a lot of thinking.
Oh yeah? You know what? Me too!

546
00:42:35,896 --> 00:42:37,820
Yeah, I've been doing a lot of thinking.

547
00:42:40,570 --> 00:42:42,493
Yeah, umm.. I mean.. Look...

548
00:42:43,073 --> 00:42:47,047
It was wrong of me to say some of those
things to you. I get that. I know.

549
00:42:51,922 --> 00:42:56,679
If you want to eat junk food...
I shouldn't pick on you.

550
00:42:59,935 --> 00:43:01,858
And I should support you.

551
00:43:02,439 --> 00:43:04,884
Your career choices.

552
00:43:09,465 --> 00:43:13,408
I know... maybe sometimes...

553
00:43:13,409 --> 00:43:15,639
you can be a little too sensitive...

554
00:43:15,674 --> 00:43:16,899
but that's...

555
00:43:16,933 --> 00:43:19,583
I don't think I'm too sensitive.

556
00:43:22,121 --> 00:43:23,841
And even if I am...

557
00:43:24,842 --> 00:43:28,318
I just want
to be sure, sometimes,

558
00:43:28,353 --> 00:43:32,679
that my life is the one I want
with the person I want.

559
00:43:40,694 --> 00:43:44,536
You know, Greg, I have busted my ass for
years

560
00:43:44,937 --> 00:43:47,454
to make something of my life.

561
00:43:47,579 --> 00:43:51,800
I'm not sure sometimes if I'm doing
it right, but shouldn't that be okay?

562
00:43:51,835 --> 00:43:55,822
If I talk it out. If I'm allowed to
express my thoughts and my feelings.

563
00:43:56,318 --> 00:43:59,073
Yeah, fine. Look, listen... that's great.

564
00:43:59,740 --> 00:44:03,366
I want you to do that,
and if you want me...

565
00:44:03,392 --> 00:44:05,242
I can be that for you.

566
00:44:10,466 --> 00:44:12,015
Just“.

567
00:44:15,808 --> 00:44:17,732
Just give me another chance.

568
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:26,539
How about we have your
birthday dinner together.

569
00:44:28,705 --> 00:44:30,630
Just the two of us.

570
00:44:31,126 --> 00:44:32,629
Tomorrow night.

571
00:44:33,463 --> 00:44:35,385
I'll give you a break from me tonight.

572
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,684
Tomorrow can be you and me.

573
00:44:40,015 --> 00:44:41,940
Alone.

574
00:44:46,942 --> 00:44:48,866
I have to think about things.

575
00:44:50,700 --> 00:44:52,623
Think about it.

576
00:45:09,189 --> 00:45:12,317
Eh? Eh?

577
00:45:17,534 --> 00:45:21,256
Maybe there is hope for us.
Yeah, that's all I'm asking.

578
00:45:21,958 --> 00:45:23,884
Come on.

579
00:45:25,673 --> 00:45:28,514
You know, I'm really not as bad as
your friend James makes me out to be.

580
00:45:37,984 --> 00:45:39,909
Besides...

581
00:45:41,489 --> 00:45:43,414
Once you and I get worked out...

582
00:45:44,288 --> 00:45:49,343
Maybe you and I can figure out
how to get you back to school...

583
00:45:53,093 --> 00:45:55,016
and then work on a new career.

584
00:45:58,058 --> 00:45:59,982
Improve on your life a little bit.

585
00:46:08,116 --> 00:46:10,041
Yeah.

586
00:46:12,249 --> 00:46:15,424
Take away some of that insecurity
that you have. You know?

587
00:46:17,884 --> 00:46:21,105
I know you aren't as happy as you could be.

588
00:46:24,517 --> 00:46:26,738
You just need to make some changes.

589
00:46:36,997 --> 00:46:38,921
Oh, boy.

590
00:46:39,959 --> 00:46:43,262
Well.. I'd better get going.

591
00:46:51,438 --> 00:46:53,907
It's up early, and back
to they gym before work.

592
00:47:05,167 --> 00:47:07,092
Hey, Greg...

593
00:47:10,135 --> 00:47:12,060
You really had me there.

594
00:47:18,481 --> 00:47:21,953
That you really care about me, my
life, all of things you said...

595
00:47:30,917 --> 00:47:33,799
I think what you want is someone who...

596
00:47:34,299 --> 00:47:38,273
you can show off.

597
00:47:38,598 --> 00:47:42,231
Someone you can take home to mom and dad.

598
00:47:43,589 --> 00:47:47,558
Someone who is pretty and well-built.

599
00:47:47,559 --> 00:47:50,220
and all scrubbed up and...

600
00:47:51,893 --> 00:47:53,413
your equal.

601
00:47:53,873 --> 00:47:56,047
But that person isn't me.
What are you saying?

602
00:47:56,544 --> 00:47:58,467
I like who I am.

603
00:47:59,257 --> 00:48:03,058
I like that I was raised by my
mom and my oakie grandparents.

604
00:48:04,848 --> 00:48:07,479
I like that I come from a good upbringing.

605
00:48:07,979 --> 00:48:10,622
You know, maybe we didn't have
everything, but I had what I needed.

606
00:48:14,323 --> 00:48:16,283
You'd never want to take
me home to your parents.

607
00:48:16,826 --> 00:48:18,750
I'm not from the right side of the tracks.

608
00:48:20,959 --> 00:48:23,806
You know, maybe I don't make enough
money, but maybe I never will.

609
00:48:24,131 --> 00:48:28,183
Maybe I'll always like fried baloney
sandwiches and walks in the country.

610
00:48:33,311 --> 00:48:35,273
At the end of the day I
can live with my choices.

611
00:48:38,778 --> 00:48:40,704
I need to make the right choice...

612
00:48:45,748 --> 00:48:47,672
."about us.

613
00:48:54,763 --> 00:48:56,688
You're saying no?

614
00:49:10,789 --> 00:49:13,797
I'll stay with James until I
get this figured out and...

615
00:49:14,254 --> 00:49:16,177
No no no no, it's fine, it's fine.

616
00:49:16,633 --> 00:49:18,558
Just stay here, whatever.

617
00:49:19,303 --> 00:49:21,228
A week, two weeks, it's fine.

618
00:52:58,968 --> 00:53:02,116
So I moved to Oregon,

619
00:53:02,117 --> 00:53:05,374
for a year to help take
care of my grandfather.

620
00:53:06,626 --> 00:53:08,757
Wound up living there for three years.

621
00:53:10,071 --> 00:53:12,087
Wrote a few of my scripts there.

622
00:53:13,129 --> 00:53:14,715
In the cold of winter.

623
00:53:18,109 --> 00:53:20,034
I had no friends, no social life.

624
00:53:21,073 --> 00:53:22,997
Just me and my dog.

625
00:53:25,497 --> 00:53:29,129
I was glad to do it. Glad to help
my grandpa through his final years.

626
00:53:30,588 --> 00:53:35,812
It humbles you fast when you
see how fast life goes.

627
00:53:36,138 --> 00:53:40,271
When we all end up in the
same position when we're old.

628
00:53:40,604 --> 00:53:42,529
You were really great to do that.

629
00:53:42,901 --> 00:53:45,827
A lot of people would have
never even gotten involved.

630
00:53:47,033 --> 00:53:51,632
My parents were really great
to me and my sisters.

631
00:53:51,997 --> 00:53:53,922
I was just a happy kid playing videogames.

632
00:53:56,254 --> 00:53:59,762
Other than wanting us get good
grades in school and be good people,

633
00:54:00,135 --> 00:54:04,440
They never pressured us to do
anything that didn't make us happy.

634
00:54:05,394 --> 00:54:10,153
Maybe I should have worried more about
the future, or had bigger goals.

635
00:54:10,737 --> 00:54:12,661
I'm basically happy.

636
00:54:13,032 --> 00:54:18,463
When I was twelve, my dad came to me
and said that we were moving again.

637
00:54:18,875 --> 00:54:21,911
He had a new job, so we
had to move to the next

638
00:54:21,937 --> 00:54:24,911
town over and change schools.
The whole thing.

639
00:54:27,473 --> 00:54:30,693
We used to have this cool,
blue Chevy van, 1980's model.

640
00:54:31,396 --> 00:54:34,871
One day, on his way to the
plastics factory, the drive

641
00:54:34,896 --> 00:54:38,434
train broke, so he called to
say that he would be late.

642
00:54:39,033 --> 00:54:41,789
So, after three years
with the company...

643
00:54:41,815 --> 00:54:47,062
- Perfect job record -Never missed a day.
- Never called in late -Never was sick.

644
00:54:48,173 --> 00:54:50,678
The dickhead called him and said
to not even bother coming in.

645
00:54:55,643 --> 00:54:57,813
He always felt bad that
he was just a worker bee.

646
00:54:57,839 --> 00:54:59,140
He always wanted more for us.

647
00:55:05,576 --> 00:55:09,299
After seeing how my dad never did
much with his life... I wanted more.

648
00:55:13,172 --> 00:55:15,891
He called me a dreamer,
told me to get real.

649
00:55:16,219 --> 00:55:19,942
Get a job, any job.
Making movies won't pay the bills.

650
00:55:20,935 --> 00:55:23,190
You should be proud of what you have done.
It's more than most people.

651
00:55:23,607 --> 00:55:26,329
It seems like you have really busted
your ass for all of these years.

652
00:55:27,153 --> 00:55:30,751
Never expected or wanted to get rich.
I just wanted to do what I love.

653
00:55:31,286 --> 00:55:33,208
Aren't you doing just that?

654
00:55:33,579 --> 00:55:36,300
Make a movie every year or so,
live the life the way you want?

655
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,552
So your plan didn't take you to
be a big time Hollywood director.

656
00:55:41,592 --> 00:55:45,271
OK, so you're an Indie film maker, with
some really good films under your belt.

657
00:55:45,976 --> 00:55:49,072
I mean, hey, most good films
come from guys like you.

658
00:55:55,031 --> 00:55:58,038
Oh, um... I should probably get going.
You probably want to get to bed.

659
00:55:58,253 --> 00:55:59,404
Oh, no no! I'm going to be up for hours.

660
00:55:59,405 --> 00:56:01,982
I stay up to one or two in the
morning, playing videogames.

661
00:56:02,811 --> 00:56:04,637
Plus, it's pouring out.

662
00:56:07,093 --> 00:56:09,439
You know what?
I'd love another beer.

663
00:56:10,766 --> 00:56:11,608
Hey, uh... Um...

664
00:56:14,270 --> 00:56:19,280
I'm going to a film festival next weekend.
They are showing one of my movies.

665
00:56:19,697 --> 00:56:22,535
They're giving me a
free place to stay... and

666
00:56:22,636 --> 00:56:24,923
I don't know if you
wanted to go with me, I mean...

667
00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:28,892
Yes! I would love to go.
That would be... cool.

668
00:56:29,362 --> 00:56:30,886
Really?

669
00:56:31,633 --> 00:56:33,557
Great!

670
00:56:45,330 --> 00:56:47,455
"Looks like about eight
or ten out there now".

671
00:56:49,537 --> 00:56:51,462
"There are a lot out back too!"

672
00:57:13,367 --> 00:57:15,292
You know, this movie really scared
the crap out of me when I was a kid.

673
00:57:16,165 --> 00:57:18,088
They're coming to get you, Barbra!

674
00:57:18,919 --> 00:57:20,843
You do that really good.
Ha! Thank you.

675
00:57:21,961 --> 00:57:24,651
There you go again, making me
think you are this awesome guy

676
00:57:24,652 --> 00:57:26,783
who has the same interests as me.

677
00:57:29,646 --> 00:57:32,454
You really notice details.
You're smart.

678
00:57:33,442 --> 00:57:35,868
Oh, you! Go on.

679
00:57:37,068 --> 00:57:39,947
Plus, I don't think most
people would say I'm smart.

680
00:57:41,471 --> 00:57:46,536
Sometimes people confuse
social anxiety or shyness for being...

681
00:57:46,537 --> 00:57:48,906
you know, dumb or stuck up, but...

682
00:57:50,002 --> 00:57:52,644
You know what?
That's their issue.

683
00:57:54,393 --> 00:57:56,317
I think you're a great guy.

684
00:57:57,482 --> 00:58:00,203
I've only known you a couple of weeks.

685
00:58:01,632 --> 00:58:03,822
Believe me, by the time you turn 50

686
00:58:03,823 --> 00:58:06,964
you really shouldn't care about
what people think of you.

687
00:58:09,668 --> 00:58:11,592
I really liked the movie.
Uh... Your movie.

688
00:58:12,130 --> 00:58:14,932
I liked being a part of it.
The film festival, I've never been to one.

689
00:58:15,488 --> 00:58:17,080
It always makes me a bit anxious,

690
00:58:17,081 --> 00:58:19,371
having to talk to a room
full of two hundred people.

691
00:58:19,427 --> 00:58:20,817
You pulled it off well.

692
00:58:22,191 --> 00:58:27,068
The story really moved me.
You're a good writer... sincere.

693
00:58:28,132 --> 00:58:31,254
Small town, down home.

694
00:58:33,248 --> 00:58:36,801
I've tried other styles,
but I keep hitting blocks.

695
00:58:38,465 --> 00:58:42,688
I keep coming back to small town life.
Places where most of us come from.

696
00:58:43,599 --> 00:58:45,522
People must like your movies.

697
00:58:46,144 --> 00:58:47,396
I don't know... I guess.

698
00:58:49,942 --> 00:58:53,368
I keep getting ripped apart
in reviews, for being sappy.

699
00:58:54,409 --> 00:58:56,332
So what?
Life IS sappy at times.

700
00:58:57,704 --> 00:58:59,630
Plus, that's just some person's opinion.

701
00:59:00,751 --> 00:59:02,676
You'd love it in Indiana.

702
00:59:03,047 --> 00:59:06,222
Perfect place to write, small town.
Four seasons means four books.

703
00:59:06,969 --> 00:59:08,895
Indiana, huh?

704
00:59:09,808 --> 00:59:11,731
I always liked the midwest.

705
00:59:12,187 --> 00:59:14,111
Small towns.

706
00:59:16,319 --> 00:59:18,664
Older buildings and front porch houses.

707
00:59:22,454 --> 00:59:24,583
Well, it's just something to think about.

708
00:59:29,251 --> 00:59:33,870
"Doctor Grimes, your entire staff
has been working very hard

709
00:59:33,871 --> 00:59:37,125
to find some solution to these
things that are happening".

710
00:59:37,203 --> 00:59:39,483
You know, this is one of the first

711
00:59:39,484 --> 00:59:42,997
horror movies I saw, when
I was a kid back in the 70's.

712
00:59:43,558 --> 00:59:47,111
Back in the olden' days.

713
00:59:47,180 --> 00:59:50,424
When movies were good,
there was no cable.

714
00:59:50,865 --> 00:59:54,457
Just 3 networks and a
local TV stations.

715
00:59:55,424 --> 01:00:00,371
David, that was a really
really really long time ago.

716
01:00:00,390 --> 01:00:01,688
I know. Ha!

717
01:00:02,478 --> 01:00:07,203
I'm an old man shane.
Older than you by a lot.

718
01:00:11,201 --> 01:00:12,453
What?

719
01:00:12,993 --> 01:00:14,918
David, 50 is not that old.

720
01:00:16,918 --> 01:00:20,219
Are you bugged that we can't be friends
because you are 15 years older than me?

721
01:00:20,508 --> 01:00:22,431
Age is just a number, it doesn't matter.

722
01:00:23,594 --> 01:00:26,475
15 years is a pretty huge gap.

723
01:00:27,643 --> 01:00:31,491
Different tastes, different
ways of thinking.

724
01:00:32,108 --> 01:00:34,033
David, age really doesn't matter.

725
01:00:34,904 --> 01:00:38,286
To me, at least. When I look at you,
I don't see your age, all right?

726
01:00:57,735 --> 01:00:59,236
I... just have to ask you something.

727
01:00:59,526 --> 01:01:01,407
I'm sorry for being so forward.

728
01:01:03,660 --> 01:01:07,060
James is really concerned
about me, and he is a

729
01:01:07,061 --> 01:01:10,377
good friend to me and
a great cousin to you.

730
01:01:14,053 --> 01:01:15,976
But...

731
01:01:17,516 --> 01:01:19,441
I don't know if you're straight...
or... gay...

732
01:01:20,229 --> 01:01:24,989
He thought that we might get along great,
that we might be perfect as friends.

733
01:01:26,154 --> 01:01:28,299
I don't know, I never got
around to asking him.

734
01:01:28,325 --> 01:01:30,062
He seems to think
that, maybe you are.

735
01:01:30,370 --> 01:01:31,873
I guess. I don't know.

736
01:01:37,464 --> 01:01:41,645
I'm sorry, you know we're
just going to be... friends, then“.

737
01:01:42,056 --> 01:01:45,107
And that's good with me.. that's good...

738
01:01:51,572 --> 01:01:53,496
AH! Oh, I'm sorry!

739
01:01:53,825 --> 01:01:55,787
Oh, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry!
No, no, It's alright!

740
01:01:56,454 --> 01:01:58,378
Are you OK? It's OK, It's OK!

741
01:01:59,585 --> 01:02:01,806
It's OK! Kiss me, quick!

742
01:02:36,812 --> 01:02:38,735
I'm having so much fun with you.

743
01:02:39,942 --> 01:02:41,984
You know what, mister, I'm
having fun with you too.

744
01:02:48,538 --> 01:02:52,718
I don't think I've had this
much fun in a long, long time.

745
01:02:55,175 --> 01:02:57,098
You're funny. You're sweet.

746
01:02:57,387 --> 01:03:01,645
You're kind, and you're damn hot.

747
01:03:02,144 --> 01:03:04,070
Hot?

748
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,364
Haha... that's rich!

749
01:03:06,903 --> 01:03:08,827
Look, David, you are a very hot man!

750
01:03:09,699 --> 01:03:11,622
I'm a man that's getting old.

751
01:03:12,079 --> 01:03:14,721
Oh, David, not the age thing again.
I thought we talked about this.

752
01:03:18,588 --> 01:03:20,843
I don't know how to get past that.

753
01:03:25,851 --> 01:03:29,653
We've known each other
for such a short time.

754
01:03:32,236 --> 01:03:37,119
I am completely and
absolutely crazy about you.

755
01:03:39,790 --> 01:03:41,713
But you are 15 years younger than me.

756
01:03:43,897 --> 01:03:46,329
I have no expectations, I mean...

757
01:03:46,330 --> 01:03:49,420
Look, wait.
I know, I remember what it was like.

758
01:03:49,848 --> 01:03:54,857
You are just having fun, and that's OK.
David, David...

759
01:03:56,191 --> 01:03:58,117
We talked about this.

760
01:03:58,655 --> 01:04:00,577
Age doesn't matter to me.

761
01:04:00,990 --> 01:04:03,512
Alright? It really, really doesn't.
Age really is just a number.

762
01:04:04,162 --> 01:04:06,087
I think James is right.

763
01:04:08,503 --> 01:04:10,427
I think we are just perfect for each other.

764
01:04:12,175 --> 01:04:14,100
And I'm crazy about you.

765
01:04:16,566 --> 01:04:17,990
I'm not going to go
second guessing it

766
01:04:17,991 --> 01:04:21,174
because you are too old, or
because I'm too young. Alright?

767
01:04:23,067 --> 01:04:26,380
I don't know what's been going on
here since I met you, but um...

768
01:04:30,690 --> 01:04:33,165
I've never been this
happy before in my life.

769
01:04:43,002 --> 01:04:44,457
I want you to be happy.

770
01:04:44,981 --> 01:04:47,826
David, the universe
wants you to be happy.

771
01:04:49,403 --> 01:04:51,328
Alright?
Do what you want in life.

772
01:04:52,242 --> 01:04:55,496
Make a lot of money. Make no money.
Make some money. Make all the money.

773
01:04:58,093 --> 01:05:02,400
What matters is that you have done good.

774
01:05:03,216 --> 01:05:04,601
And that you do good for others.

775
01:05:04,602 --> 01:05:09,571
And that can only come from
having a good heart, which you have.

776
01:05:20,061 --> 01:05:25,809
I just never believed I'd meet
anybody that would like me for me.

777
01:05:28,435 --> 01:05:31,514
- That I deserved to be happy.
- Why?

778
01:05:32,298 --> 01:05:34,524
Oh, I don't know.

779
01:05:40,110 --> 01:05:42,034
My dad...

780
01:05:44,202 --> 01:05:48,210
I guess I never felt
that he approved of me.

781
01:05:50,628 --> 01:05:52,927
I mean, maybe he loved me in his own way.

782
01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:57,644
If he ever told me...

783
01:05:59,100 --> 01:06:01,024
just once...

784
01:06:02,689 --> 01:06:04,614
if I ever meant anything to him.

785
01:06:08,866 --> 01:06:10,165
I never knew if I was...

786
01:06:11,037 --> 01:06:12,414
important.

787
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:16,295
Well you are very important to me.

788
01:06:16,628 --> 01:06:17,597
OK?

789
01:06:18,215 --> 01:06:20,139
Uh, listen.

790
01:06:23,264 --> 01:06:25,645
I know you are going through
some stuff right now.

791
01:06:26,812 --> 01:06:32,119
But, um... I'm pretty sure I want to
spend the rest of my life with you.

792
01:06:54,107 --> 01:06:56,030
Sorry.

793
01:07:39,721 --> 01:07:41,645
How's it hanging there, guy?

794
01:07:42,268 --> 01:07:45,741
You're looking pretty serious
today, whats going on with you?

795
01:07:52,952 --> 01:07:54,876
It's Shane.

796
01:07:57,335 --> 01:07:59,258
The young man, huh?

797
01:08:01,090 --> 01:08:03,266
It's getting really serious.

798
01:08:05,639 --> 01:08:07,563
Serious is good.

799
01:08:10,022 --> 01:08:12,152
Ace, he's 15 years younger than me.

800
01:08:12,818 --> 01:08:16,325
Well, as the young people say, BFD.
You know?

801
01:08:17,785 --> 01:08:25,024
You cannot look at age in the
way that society does.

802
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:27,263
Because you're smarter than that.

803
01:08:27,761 --> 01:08:31,433
Patrick was 23 years younger than me.

804
01:08:33,369 --> 01:08:34,379
And guess what?

805
01:08:35,974 --> 01:08:37,404
I'm still here.

806
01:08:38,896 --> 01:08:46,684
You cannot think about your mate
in any other way than just:

807
01:08:46,957 --> 01:08:52,750
'This is today! We are in
love and today is our day!

808
01:08:52,751 --> 01:08:55,720
And you go through life
every day that way.

809
01:08:56,616 --> 01:08:58,108
That's it.

810
01:08:58,502 --> 01:09:01,231
Do you run into problems?
Hell yes.

811
01:09:02,157 --> 01:09:04,086
Life isn't a bowl of cherries.

812
01:09:04,751 --> 01:09:07,137
It's got a lot of pits in it too.

813
01:09:09,331 --> 01:09:11,526
You know, he wants to move to Indiana?

814
01:09:12,822 --> 01:09:15,235
- Been there done that kind of thing too.
- Mmhmm.

815
01:09:17,223 --> 01:09:19,695
Can't tell you how many times
Patrick and I moved

816
01:09:19,696 --> 01:09:22,032
in those 12 years
that we were together.

817
01:09:22,409 --> 01:09:27,854
Plenty. Was it all his, all mine?
No. It was ours.

818
01:09:28,394 --> 01:09:30,323
We had to come to an agreement.

819
01:09:30,903 --> 01:09:32,624
As far as Indiana?

820
01:09:32,625 --> 01:09:37,406
I wouldn't move there. I came from
a farm in South Dakota, you know that.

821
01:09:37,641 --> 01:09:40,599
I don't want to move back
to the farm country again.

822
01:09:40,625 --> 01:09:41,856
As much as I love it.

823
01:09:42,244 --> 01:09:45,803
If I go to Indiana, I...
I won't be able to see you.

824
01:09:47,974 --> 01:09:52,837
Do people have.. cars and
trains and airplanes now?

825
01:09:54,905 --> 01:09:56,651
Aha! Yeah. They do.

826
01:09:57,223 --> 01:09:58,880
I could see you, you could see me.

827
01:10:01,074 --> 01:10:04,246
Time is irrelevant, age is irrelevant.

828
01:10:04,247 --> 01:10:09,752
It's two human souls getting together.

829
01:10:13,618 --> 01:10:15,519
You jump at it.

830
01:10:15,777 --> 01:10:19,103
Don't you dare talk your way out of this.

831
01:10:19,768 --> 01:10:20,801
Go.

832
01:10:21,737 --> 01:10:23,883
Hello Indiana.

833
01:10:32,018 --> 01:10:34,140
"We all strive for the perfect life".

834
01:10:35,952 --> 01:10:38,445
It's not about money, or fame.

835
01:10:40,235 --> 01:10:42,666
It's about the kind of person we become.

836
01:10:42,955 --> 01:10:46,767
Every choice we make, takes
us down a different road.

837
01:10:48,098 --> 01:10:51,261
When I'm on my deathbed and I reflect,

838
01:10:51,262 --> 01:10:54,753
I just want to be sure I made
a difference in the world.

839
01:10:55,256 --> 01:10:57,185
In someone's life.

840
01:10:59,302 --> 01:11:02,832
"That I didn't just...
take up space".

841
01:11:05,047 --> 01:11:06,976
Hey there, mister.

842
01:11:07,431 --> 01:11:09,361
You ready to go?

843
01:11:10,988 --> 01:11:12,917
You are my best friend.

844
01:11:13,542 --> 01:11:16,554
I never dreamt the two of
you would fall in love.

845
01:11:17,182 --> 01:11:20,034
But, I'm so happy you did!
You guys mean the world to me.

846
01:11:20,361 --> 01:11:23,592
So, no long goodbyes, no tears or anything.
I love you both.

847
01:11:23,875 --> 01:11:26,936
And I just know you two
will be together forever.

848
01:11:27,224 --> 01:11:29,152
I just know these things, alright?

849
01:11:29,609 --> 01:11:31,538
I wish you'd come with us.

850
01:11:31,827 --> 01:11:33,756
You guys had better get going!

851
01:11:40,654 --> 01:11:43,668
By the way... I put in my job notice.

852
01:11:44,001 --> 01:11:47,861
I'll be there in three months. I couldn't be
without my two best friends, now could I?

853
01:11:51,115 --> 01:11:53,044
What just happened?

854
01:11:59,902 --> 01:12:01,831
We're really going to do this...

855
01:12:02,956 --> 01:12:05,261
We are all packed up and moving to Indiana.

856
01:12:05,925 --> 01:12:09,694
My folks are excited to meet you
and I can't wait to show you off.

857
01:12:11,031 --> 01:12:13,384
What? What's wrong?

858
01:12:15,132 --> 01:12:18,863
You really love me, don't you? Because
I really love you with all my heart.

859
01:12:19,692 --> 01:12:21,999
Are you sure you want to do this?
What?

860
01:12:28,061 --> 01:12:30,492
I just want to thank you.

861
01:12:31,241 --> 01:12:35,054
For giving me love and support...

862
01:12:35,383 --> 01:12:37,391
and a new third act in my life.

863
01:12:40,238 --> 01:12:42,372
I thought I'd die alone, an old man.

864
01:12:43,045 --> 01:12:45,791
Thanks for taking care of me
when I get old and feeble

865
01:12:45,792 --> 01:12:47,849
and I can't take care of myself.

866
01:12:48,210 --> 01:12:52,546
Well... I'm just doing it
for the insurance money.

867
01:12:53,214 --> 01:12:54,830
I love you.

868
01:12:54,945 --> 01:12:58,606
I love you. No matter what
we have to go through.

869
01:12:58,662 --> 01:13:02,531
I can't imagine not spending every
day of every year forever with you.

870
01:13:03,369 --> 01:13:05,632
The day I met you my world changed.

871
01:13:06,431 --> 01:13:09,569
It was lonely, I just existed.

872
01:13:16,750 --> 01:13:19,830
"I actually got my
farmboy from Indiana".

873
01:13:22,005 --> 01:13:25,799
I never thought it would take me
50 years to find my true love.

874
01:13:27,019 --> 01:13:29,904
But maybe that whole fate thing is true.

875
01:13:30,405 --> 01:13:35,349
The day we met was
the best day of my life.

876
01:13:35,845 --> 01:13:43,055
"And now, every day is the best day ever".